This is absolutely not related to Valentine subject which I wanted to post earlier but somehow I thought it would be interesting to share a piece of my mind about love subject since Valentine day is just around the corner, and since Valentine always symbolises LOVE between girl and boy.

A friend of mine angered me many years ago when we were still students. She was older than me and she was a masters student who I get along well. Among all the Malaysian students on my campus, she is the second person I mixed the most. We discussed things freely and usually we do so with other Malaysian students but I particularly remember one topic, which was about partners. Because she was the second oldest in my batch, we know she has a boyfriend [who is now her husband] and she asked us if we have boyfriends/ girlfriends and so on.

We were in her room when we had this discussion but I don't particularly remember who was in the room as me other than she, he, she and unidenditified person. She showed a picture of her bf and we all went Ooh. And she spilled out more about how they met and he was her first and last love and bla bla. Maybe she knew why we went ooh instead of ahh, she defended him saying 'Usually guys like him get pretty/ cute girlfriends.' Because the people in the room know I don't wish to have a partner, she suddenly said to me "I would like to see your boyfriend one day."

Stunned. I asked why.

"Because I have been noticing that many lengchai [good looking guys in Cantonese] have not so beautiful girlfriends."

And I think some of the people in the room added that they have seen kakkuii [gorgeous in Japanese] with plump sized girls and such. And I have witnessed that myself too many a time.

I thought it was weird. "So? You know I won't have boyfriend or partner. So I don't think you would ever get to see. Even if I have one, he has to be LENGCHAI."

She just laughed to herself. I thanked her for saying me cute but not about getting a not lengchai guy as bf. I was offended.

What do you mean by pretty girls can't get good looking husband? It's not the law of nature. We are not discussing some Darwinian theory.

Ugh. Never mind. I have a printed photo of Itachi [ a deceased character from Naruto manga] next to my pillow. I'm going to apply the Law of Attraction.

Ugh.

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I finally put up a chatbox after many readers have been telling me that they could not leave comments here. I have been trying to fix the problem but I don't know what is the problem. I have been removing some codes and still they are problems. I think I know what is the problem but I can't find the code in my site. So I'm now on a hunt for that. But I'm piss that I could not put an advertisement that I have previously put on. Damn.

Have fun. Because I'm getting another late supper.

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I had a late supper. And it's sooo indescribable because it's so SOUR. I made lemon honey drink because the lemon is drying up and my mother needed the lemon juice. I added lots of honey and water and it's still sour. Sour to the SOUL!

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My family decided to visit my enstranged uncle and follow them to visit another cousin of my mother's.

Today's visiting was pretty good. My mother's cousin's husband talked a lot today because we somehow generated topics related to his hobby: Feng Shui. So jumping on the opportunity, I asked him some Feng Shui questions. One of them is about wind chime. Jolenesiah once told me her father disallowed her to display her wind chime from Japan. I somehow got curious and asked my mother. She was telling me that some people believe it to be a spirit catcher but I found no relevant information related to this on the net. So I was satisfied with my uncle's answer: wind chime is used for 2 reasons. First reason is wind chime is used to either to activate or deactivate some energy chi at some places. Second reason is some people can't listen to the sound of the wind chime because they cannot have metal energy in their live; this only applies to metal wind chime. If you have wind chime that doesn't produce metal sound, then it's alright to display.

Although it's still Chinese New Year, we somehow talked about feng shui practices related to death burial and spirits... So I am right on one thing which many people love asking: what do spirits look like, are you able to see their face, do you interact with them, etc. My uncle was telling us that you won't be able to see the spirits face; you would only see a blur image of them. If it's white image, you are fine. If it's green, they are dangerous. Ok, I thank god for having always see the 'white', not any other colour. And for you all who wish to 'interact', my uncle advises NOT TO because spirits could do anything to you once you open yourself to them. He simply says to just accept it as a gift, nothing more than that.

I was surprised to hear my uncle telling us to knock on the door of hotels before going in. I do that. And then my auntie and uncle [my mother's bro] shared with us which karaoke bars in Kuala Lumpur is ... haunted. I can tell you where if you ask me in my comment box. I don't want to get sued on my blog. Karaoke bars are common places that have energy chi so it's not common for all these spirits to be there, to be beside you listening to your singing. Why? Because they are used to opera singing in early Hungry Ghost festival and it's not in season compare to karaoke.

And before I left the house, my uncle gave me a Feng Shui book written by Joey Yap. I'm going to read it because I need all the good chi to help me in my success!

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