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Books
Books I have completed reading since January 2018:

1. No Man's Nightingale - Ruth Rendell
2. One Day - David Nicholls
3. The Door - Margaret Atwood
Fb or home?
Tuesday. 9.10.13 7:48 pm
It was never my intention to humiliate a friend, but I was given no choice.

Out of kindness, I lent some money to my friend in 2010 despite having financial crisis at that time. Knowing the pain of financial instability and almost had no food to eat during my job hunting days was easy to empathise with this friend.

So I lent her some money with total flexibility in returning it. She could just return it when she has a job with RM10 per month.

I kept in touch with her and really felt sorry for her that she could not get a job that she likes or want.

But... sometimes she pisses me off. During her financial crisis period, she had asked me and some mutual friends out for tea and I asked her what's the budget and she replied RM10. But when I asked her to return RM10 she said she got no money.

I was so angry that I didn't spoke to her for a year but only brief sms.

So when in 2013, I decided to get back my money again since I found out she is now quite stable financially despite the occasional jobless period.

Recently, I met up with her at a shopping mall and asked her about her condition and I asked for my money back with just RM 10 . Well, she said she could try working out the amount because she got not enough of cash since she's quitting her current job... Ok that's fine with me.

But what pissed me off the whole day was... Here's what she spent during the entire duration I was with her for lunch.

RM90 for a book

RM40 for lunch when mine is just RM23

RM6 for some bubble tea

RM60 for a nail polish.

And so when we were in her car, I tried pushing to get RM10 and whatever balance and she replied... "I don't think so I can pay you now... let's see end of the month la."

How hot I were in the car that she tried asking me to stop screaming. How can I not scream?

I brought up this topic with another mutual friend of ours and painfully I realised she never even bothered to repay me.

What's with the smirk "Oh... you are one of the lenient ones..." when I asked her to pay me back?

So with the advise of the mutual friend, I sent her a sms demanding for my money back with the breakdown of the things she spent in our last meet up.

Well, at first, I don't want to write the breakdown... but what kind of impression do you get from someone who owes you money telling you "I must have my fav bubble tea everyday?" Mind you, the bubble tea she orders is around RM5 minus GST.

Ok granted. She could have saved up those amount to splurge on herself... but what kind of impression do you get when she says "I cannot afford to save up RM1 per day" when I told her get a piggy bank and put your coins there whether for me or your daily bills.

She replied with apologies and how unintentional of her for getting me upset... and she will pay me back. Right. Empty words...

Again? Right. I'm going to ask her next what reminder methods does she want me to use? Knock on your front door? Mind you, she lives just 15 mins away from my house and her family members would love to see how she is humiliated (sigh...) . Or the easiest way: posting on her FB wall?

I'm thinking of the FB wall which saves me cab fare to her house.

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Chernobyl Diary
Sunday. 9.8.13 10:43 am
Geez.

My family watched another cheapskate horror film. And I was screaming with an eye closed.

Mum was asking why was I screaming and in fact why must we scream when watching horror film?

I answered that scream is a must factor for every horror film. (HAHA).

Chernobyl diary is a sad horror film. Nobody came out off that location alive.

And it made me ponder that having some kind of superpower like Superman comes very handy.

If only I got telekinesis... then I might just become a character in Dragon Ball...

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Malacca
Thursday, September 5, 2013
I was very reluctant to follow mum on her company trip to Malacca. But later she revealed it's my birthday present.

Right. It's a fully paid trip by her company and I have not really explored Malacca.

So why not? I'm still a committed freeloader. HAHA.

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Cake
Tuesday, September 3, 2013
I'm now on a strict diet due to my poor health. I'm not allowed to eat cakes, mooncakes and even bread except for wholemeal.

After much begging the doctor, he allowed me to have only a slice for my birthday.

So what cake should I eat now?

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Twins
Saturday, August 31, 2013
Aw... my cousin has just given birth to a twins! They are the first twins in my family line!

I'm so excited and at the same time I feel so old. Ugh.

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He is so beautiful...
Thursday, August 29, 2013
I was watching The Blade and Petal Korean drama with mum yesterday and a new character popped out.

And I just went.... silently...

OMG... HE IS SO BEAUTIFUL...



He is so pretty like a girl!!! OMG!!! He is even prettier than the female protagonist.

*Gasp for oxygen*

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