Let Me Guide You

So today, I got a little pang of nostalgia and decided to search ex-fiance's name in Facebook and Myspace. I knew he had neither, as I did this about a billion times after we broke up (and for months thereafter), but it had comforted me to see his sisters appear in the list of results. I've been desperate for news, you see, since he got shipped out to Iraq.

Well, today my world got ROCKED. Ex-fiance does, in fact, have a Myspace now. Not only that, but he is back from Iraq, has a new girlfriend, and didn't bother to TELL ME ANY OF THIS!!

I mean, I guess I have no real reason to be upset, since we've been broken-up over a year. I just hoped that when he came back, we might try and pick up where we left off, or at least, I hoped he would call me and let me know he made it back ok.

Damnit, what do I do? Anything?

As I see it, my options are to be agressive (try calling his old cell #, message him on Myspace) or passive (add him as a Myspace friend and see what happens, do nothing at all).

Help me, PLEASE!! This isn't really something I can talk about with BFF right now, or any of my "real world" friends right now. It's too raw. What the hell do I do???

I wish I could help you but I don't think he wants you back in his life, since he didn't contact you or anything.
» Nuttz on 2007-09-19 03:12:17

I would say just send him a friend request if you want to talk to him. BUT prepare yourself for the possibility that he may not accept it..and if he doesnt just let it go..and at least you have his myspace to spy on him with now :)
» lyndeep on 2007-09-19 09:01:12

Hmm.
Well, I'd go with the passive option...but that's just me, and I'm timid by nature. You, on the other hand...I see you being good at the agressive approach. Just don't blow up in his face.
» The-Muffin-Man on 2007-09-20 12:28:50

Ex-FIANCE? :S I'm guessing he's really moved on... :/

You could act casual, like "I just happened to notice you got a Myspace while I was NOT E-STALKING YOU HAHAHA so I was wondering if we could catch up on the times."
» randomjunk on 2007-09-20 12:30:00

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^_^/
» gam-joi-on on 2007-09-21 12:05:57

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