sup, i fukin hate..uh...the ...uh....situation i am in (i geuss you could say that.) i really like this girl, and not just in a sexual way either. i just, like every thing about her, and i don't think she feels the same way about me. i don't know how to make her like me..or..not really make her, just get her to say yes (if i ask her out.) if anyone views this site, could you please tell me what i should do. i have never felt this way about anyone before. i just can't stop thinking about her. i dont even try to, but when im doing something, she'll just pop into my mind and i cant really think of anything else. i dont even noe y i am writing this. no 1 but me ever visits this page, so, watever. p.s. fuck you.

Um.
Since I was kind of in the same situation as you, I'd suggest just showing her you care in a subtle way first. As in don't say anything like, "I like you," or "Want to go out?" Try doing nice stuff now and then and talking, maybe letting her friends know or something after a while. It's kind of deceptive, I guess, but I did that over the course of a year without realizing that.
Anyway, after a while, you should know when to ask her out. It's a vibe type thing.
» desertsnowstorm on 2005-02-22 02:24:48

aw...well, just dont make yourself seem like your droolong over her and you'll be a-ok
» nrtnSCorporate on 2005-02-22 08:16:51

hmmm
im in kinda the same situation as u, but then again, i ald tried asking her out, w/o success..now im juz trying to build a closer frenship with her and see how it goes. wad i can tell u is, broaden ur view abt this thing, dun die die wan to profess ur love to her or ask her out or anythg.. instead, start by being frens with her..show her concern, call her, msg her anythg, try to console her when she's down or wad...hopefully she'll realize ur good intentions to her and perhaps reciprocate ur feelings towards her...of coz, it may nt be veri hopeful, but its still worth a try, girls like guys who are concerned and sensitive, to a certain extent..ttz all i can advice u on. and fyi, with regards to ur other entry on anarchy, 'anarchy in the u.k.' is actually a song by the famous uk band sex pistols, if u dun already noe...Hahaha, good luck, my fellow nutanger...
» HellSinG on 2005-02-22 10:32:44

Okay, pretty much I agree with what you've been given so far...
but, other then just becoming her friend and being nice and shit, actually get to know her. Don't just do stuff to try to get her to like you. Help her when she comes to you for help, if she ever seems upset but you're not sure, then just go to her say hi and smile ~ that tends to help. Maybe after the two of you have become decent friends go to a movie together as friends. Plus something that I realized from here...... unless you don't want her to talk to you / be around you, or if u've become good friends w/ her and she knows you're joking; don't say "fuck you" to her. Another thing that chicks like: actually listen when she tries to talk to you. Don't just sit there looking at her thinking how beautiful she is, or lost in your own dimension and just nod and say mmm hmm every once in a while. It's really annoying when guys do that and think we actually believe they're listening. Might not know it.... but girls know when guys aren't really listening to us. Goodluck ~ Monkey
» MidnightMonkey on 2005-02-22 12:55:48

Well Jak, (I'm going to call you Jak because one of my other friends on here is called Zero.) I honestly agree with Monkey about your situation. You should haowever show her some of how much you really care about her, and try to give her very slight hints about how you feel about her. I wish you luck. Always, Nana (Anna)
» life_is_blah on 2005-02-22 01:19:32

Oh yes, and be quite sincere to her.
» life_is_blah on 2005-02-22 01:20:01

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