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so before i sleep
i check everything online one last time
and so i get an email from my auntie
that i found quite interesting..
yeahh and if ur reading this boyfriend ...
im sure u'll find it interesting too..

*Do not fall in love everytime you fall in bed.
...Learn to detach emotionally.
*Sex does not equal commitment.
*Do not revolve your entire life around him/her.
...Addiction is bad for your health! [[hey i think that goes for "focusing all ur attention on me ..or whatever..]]
*Do not cling, act needy or demand.
...Doormats are for your feet, not your heart.
*It's OK to say NO!
*Stop talking so much. NEVER reveal everything.
*Do not grill them or their friends for information.
*Master the art of LISTENING.
*Treat him/her as you would your best friend.
*Friendship creates long term love and comes before sex.
*FORGET about fixing your partner. [[jes noticed the word fix..]]
(Love him/her with both the positive and negative that he/she has. If you can’t stand on his/her bad side, tell him/her about what you dislike but never attempt to change him/her. Change comes naturally with love. If you’re unhappy with his/her attitude, choose to stay with him/her and live with the consequences; or, find a person that nearly fits the personality you want for a partner.)
*Your choice of partner is a reflection of who you are and who you are not!
*Enjoy the moment first. Live in the present.
...Don't worry about the ex's or start naming your future children.
*NEVER read their journal or go through their paperwork.
...If you have no trust, you have no relationship.
*Allow space and freedom between you.
*DO NOT always be available.
Calling frequently is a turn off and signals insecurity, neediness and
control.
*Open your eyes to lies and cheating, OR... close them,
Little or no eye contact? Start walking. They won't even notice you’re gone.
*Anyone preoccupied with their physical appearance and dress, usually have
very little or nothing to offer from within.
...Look beyond the physical!
*Never compromise your values.
*If you OVER give, you will lose your lover and his respect. (You also lose yourself not knowingly, until he/she consumes your strength in your relationship, until you give up and there’s nothing left for yourself to start all over when he/she leaves you alone.)
*DO NOT LOSE YOUR IDENTITY.
*December/May relationships are great. However, seasons change
and the May lover will sooner or later, hear the call of Spring.
*If someone REALLY wants to be with you, they will be.
*Sleeping with a married man? Don't count on him divorcing anytime soon. (Sleeping with someone having another relationship? Do not expect him/her to be committed to you.)
*State your personal rules in the very beginning or expect them to be broken. (It’s better to be expecting the worst than expecting for the best.
*If they ask to be just friends, be just that and look elsewhere for a
love partner.
*If someone wants to really be with you, they will. If they keep giving
reasons for not calling or say they are EXTREMELY busy and have no time, GET THE HINT, leave them alone.
*Marriage before thirty is an inevitable celebration for divorce.
*Don't ever give up your friends for him/her.
*If your partner one day leaves you, be sure you have friends, money,
a career and a life of your own which you never gave up.
...If you do not, who do you have to blame but yourself!

"Hopeless romantics are only hopeless in the eyes of those who don't
believe in romance"
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