At the checkouts, I was just chatting to my work mate Will and he is a white dood stuck in a black dood's body - I swear! Hehehe. He's like 'SUP Y'ALL'. He is so farni....the way he opens up to conversations. I guess it is easier to have someone open up in conversation to me as I am to them because...cmon my life isn't exactly riveting! And ppl do like to talk, right?

He was telling me his tastes in girls and all and I was like 'OKAyyyyy', but guys tend to talk freely to girls who are interested in what they have to say. I noticed guys have different tastes. Not all of them are going after the 'Paris Hilton' copy cats but more of substance when they know what they want out of a r'ship. Will was rather specific when he told me what he is looking for in his dream girl. (I sure hope he doesn't come across this blog! Or I'm dead :/)

1) She has to be asian
2) Like heavy metal music
3) Willing to get tattoos for him
4) Be environmentally involved e.g activist
5) Like Hello Kitty mechandise

Hmmmm... he knows what he is looking for. I guess that is good in a way cuz you will know when she comes around. I wonder if all guys out there have a list. Or girls even??? Wouldn't that just be unfair to any other ppl who you will miss, that you haven't given a chance to? It does sound a bit selfish doesn't it? But aren't we all a lil selfish when it comes to LOVE?

But what if you don't have specific criteria??? It's pretty much all a game of 'CHANCE' isn't it? To spend the rest of your life with someone you find yourself happy with. :) But then again it is the best...because you would go through life discovering the mysteries of this person.

I have some advice to my single female friends out there....cuz if you are out in the clubs with a long list of expectations of 'MR. RIGHT' you're not off to a good start. Be open...to the possibilities of a destined match ;) Cuz everyone has their flaws. You included. Cmon it is ok to admit ones' flaws. I have plenty. But I'm so glad there is someone out there who will accept me as I am. :)

So is it good to have tastes? Hmmm...I dun think so. Because honestly I have no specific tastes. Only that he has to be a well-mannered man. But that's common yeh? hehehehe...

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