The day will eventually come when moving on means erasing every single trace whatsoever of things that had happened, both good and bad, from your life. There will be new people to joke (mild, else cavort?) with, laugh with, liking all your posts indiscriminately on fb and beyond, play with, smile with, spend time with.

And the day will eventually come when moving on also means making a conscious effort not to visit this site, asking people to do so on your behalf and therefore keeping your side of a one-sided bargain. Technically that works.

It is time to write off whatever emotional capital, time and effort that I'd invested. Currently am in the midst of preparing a solvency report to that effect.

And then you have people that are so busy with other people and events and commitments that you become simply a mere irritant that so is low down on the priority list that you ought to be ignored.

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