Desperado, why don�t you come to your senses?
You been out ridin� fences for so long now
Oh, you�re a hard one
I know that you got your reasons
These things that are pleasin� you
Can hurt you somehow..

Now it seems to me, some fine things
Have been laid upon your table
But you only want the ones that you can�t get
-Lyrics from Desperado - The Eagles

Why are some men just so impatient, possessive and plain old obsessive?

The most important thing I'd learnt all these years is that a guy needs to 100% allow the one he is chasing to have her freedom to make her choice free of any coercion and intimidation.

And to respect whatever choice she makes as a consequence.

You can be twenty-odd years old but yet abuse your position of trust through your adolescent behavior and actions. You can be the nicest guy in the world but show your true colors when your plan did not go the way you'd envisaged it to be. You can wait willingly and hang on indefinitely but evaporate your groundswell of good-feeling by being so damn bloody ass-perado.

There's absolutely nothing to gain in dealing with such a person. Better to put him out of his misery before he gets too much a grasp on your judgement by toying with your conscience. Besides, a real gentleman will absolutely accept whatever decision you make with an open heart instead of using emotional blackmail to achieve his aim. And still willingly remain good friends with you when it doesn't work out.

A friend of mine warned me recently that there're a lot of guys such as these out there in the world. Once you'd shown them your weaknesses and opened too much to them without seemingly knowing them for who they really are, they'll just use this new-found influence over you to arm-wrestle you into accepting their terms - Especially if he sees that you're really dependent on him to hear you out all the time. He'll know how to make full use of this dependency. Beware.

Do err on the side of caution. Heed the warning signs ^^ Be tough when you have to as not all friends are worth having. Why stress yourself out over the potential loss of this.. new dude when you have so many of us to turn to? Why hurt yourself in the long run when it's his own personal choice to hit on you in the first place?

This is just a piece of advice I can give to all my female friends who're matriculating this year. The most important reason why I'd been able to give you an insight into how a desperado's mind work is because I'd been one myself in the past.

You readers are pretty much welcome to give your two cent's view on this issue by commenting.

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