mood: sad


SPOTTED!
Sources say that Mr. Popular has been going on dates with a mysterious girl. Who is she? What happened to Mr. Popular’s girlfriend, Ms. Gorgeous? Have they split?

MORE SIGHTING SPOTTED
Anonymous sources say that Mr. Popular has been constantly spotted going out with the same mysterious girl.

HAVE THEY SPLIT?
Rumors have it that the golden couple has split. Was it because of the mysterious girl?

IT’S CONFIRMED: GOLDEN COUPLE HAS SPLIT!
According to the mutual friends of the golden couple, they have agreed on going on separate way. Meanwhile, more rumors have been going around saying that Mr. Popular is a two-timer Ms. Gorgeous and the mysterious girl is blamed for the split.
(Image: think of the typical couple picture which split into half)

MYSTERIOUS GIRL’S IDENTITY IDENTIFIED!
Finally the identity of the mysterious girl who is said to be the cause of the golden couple’s split has been identified. She is said to be the best friend of Mr. Popular. Apparently, they have been really closed for the past few months while working together in a project.
According to eye witnesses, the mysterious girl is a really plain looking girl. Friends of the ex golden couple just don’t know what ‘dirty’ tricks she used to have caused the split.
Due to her unpopular status, not much information can be obtained about her at the time of printing.

MORE SPECULATION CONTINUE
Was he a two-timer or is she the boyfriend snatcher?

SILENT TREATMENT
Mr. Popular has been silent for months since the split with Ms. Gorgeous. He refuses to reveal his relationship status. No one knows if he’s dating the mysterious girl or he’s still grieving the recent split.
Meanwhile, friends of both parties can’t give the exact answer if the two are a couple.

If Baby were a celebrity, those above would be the chronological headlines of the tabloid newspapers that can summarize what happened for the past few months. Trust me, they were selling like hot cakes on the newsstand. E-mail me to subscribe the out-of-print issues.

Those were parts of rumors going around about Baby and I. The key words to look out for: He is the two-timer and I am THE OTHER WOMAN.

The interesting thing is that all this rumors has been going around for quite some time and I absolutely do not aware of. And now only I hear them all from a very good friend of mine.

She felt reluctant to tell me and I remember vividly the expression she told me about the rumors, it was an expression of shock (how can you be a boyfriend snatcher?) plus concern (are you really going out with a two-timer?)

I admit that I was closed (am still closed) to Baby when he was still attached but never in my life, have I thought of snatching someone’s boyfriends. Girls all hate THE OTHER WOMAN. And I, with no exception, hate THE OTHER WOMAN, too. So no way on that and I am a strong believer of Karma, what goes around come around. And yet, now I am being accused of being THE OTHER WOMAN.

People do not know the truth. The truth is Baby broke up before going out with me. He felt sorry for making me THE OTHER WOMAN as he was behaving dilly-dally in making a decision which he was supposed to make long ago. Since he feels under no obligation of telling everyone what happened and so everyone thought he was still going out with Ms. Gorgeous. Hence, he was dubbed the two-timer.

Of course there were times I felt like I was THE OTHER WOMAN, but every time I have that feeling, I’ll tell myself: Don’t flatter yourself.

Come on, how can a plain Jane like me has enough ‘beauty’ power to possibly ruin a relationship of the ‘golden couple’. But Baby keeps telling me that being gorgeous physically doesn’t measure up a good relationship. It’s not a criterion at all. I appreciate his effort in making me feel better but when you know about the ex of the person you love, you just can’t help to compare yourself to her. Any normal girl will feel intimidated under that situation.

And for the last few months, Baby and I have gone through a lot of hard time. He took a long time to make a huge decision to finally end the relationship while I took (and still taking) time to feel less about being THE OTHER WOMAN. He has been really supportive and making sure that I am alright and am not hurt by these rumors.

I know there’s no need to tell everyone what we have been up to because it’s really none of their business. But at the end of the days, rumors hurt. But I know we both will heal.


- Get Your Own

I know how you feel. I hate the Other Woman, too, and the last thing I would ever want is to be her. But sometimes I feel like her. But what can you do? I do not actively try to split up other's relationships, that's all I can do.

You probably tend over-estimate the ex's beauty, though. It's easy to do when you are comparing yourself to someone else. Stay strong. :)
It wouldn't hurt to tell a few people the true story (that you didn't get together until after those two were broken up)--- preferably really loud people. Even though it's none of their business anyway, it might make things easier for you guys.
» Zanzibar on 2007-07-16 08:25:25

Wow... That's a really bad situation to be in and kudos to your friend who told you that. It's good to have someone like that, who's willing to tell you about all the bad stuff that people say about you and you definately won't hear it.

Zanzi is right, people tend to over-estimate someone other than themselves, unless that person really loves him/herself and practically worships themselves.. Hope things will be easier for you two.
» Nuttz on 2007-07-17 04:36:38

To Zanzibar
Thanks for the advice. I have thought of telling the truth, too. But my partner doesn't think so. He thinks that this is our personal life and it's really none of other people's business. I have to respect his decision, too because we both share the same joy and sorrow in it.
» deecy on 2007-07-17 09:40:20

To Nuttz
Sorry for the emotional entry :( Yeah, I am really blessed with good friends around me. Thanks for reading...
» deecy on 2007-07-17 09:42:26

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