i am having alot of trouble with boys and im really upset so im doing a chart thingy


ok so before i begin i had a sucky day and im not doing so good sooooo please excuse the negative ranting.

ok so lets start with


Martin

confused the hell out of me and even tho he had a girlfriend flirted with me. we got into a major fight he told me not to call him till i was ready to except that him and his g/f were staying together. they broke up like two weeks after our fight. and to my knouledge are still broken up. i havent talked to him in two months and i just now texted him saying hi. he texted me back hi how are u. i texted i f-ing miss you. and i havent gotten a text back -_-


ok next we have

cass

really cute but confusing as hell i dont even know if he likes me even tho i really think he is sweet and nice and an awesome person. plus he flirts with alot of girls and was going to date this girl and then she didnt want to date him. so even if i did date him i would always feel like he chose someone else over me.


Matthew

really sweet but not my type. hes kinda geeky and hes a great friend but i just dont see him like that at all. and he keeps flirting with me and it needs to stop. but the problem is i kinda like the attention :[ im horrible


AJ

ok so i almost dated this guy like 2 years ago and he was going to my fellowship and then he left for the army or watever. hes a very manipulative guy and he plays games and hurts ppl. I thought he was in NY living with his dad but no hes living here. i just bumped into him on my way out of work and he was all "yeah ive been going to this youth group" and its one of my best friends youth groups and cass goes there!!!! i dont want him around my loved one around my friends and around the ppl i love. i dont want them to have to deal with his crap!!! and yeah i know ppl can change but BULL to that!!! I want him in NY far away from me and i dont ever want to see him or speak to him again!

grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

ok my rant is done

:[ if anybody can tell me the right direction to go in please please please help

Martin very well may be a lost cause. I'd honestly look elsewhere. With Cass perhaps you should ask him how he feels. Perhaps he went after the other one but had some interest in you but didn't know how you felt. You never know. But you shouldn't think of yourself as being his second choice if he did want to go out with you. Everyone enjoys attention but you need to get it from the right place. If Matthew is a great friend but that's it then you should let him know. If not now then with you are with someone else you should let him know that he should pull back on his flirting so as not to cause problems and by then you should be getting the attention which you seek elsewhere.

But overall I'd point you somewhere else completely.Neither of these sound like a great option for you.

I know how you feel. Kinda in a somewhat similar situation but now quite.

But best of luck and keep us posted.
» etheracide on 2008-08-09 09:11:37

You
need to hang out with me and Sarah more. We'd have your back, yo.
» middaymoon on 2008-08-10 01:34:16

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