Tyler and I made plans two weeks in advanced to do things this upcoming friday night. We've talked about them and been excited that Friday is almost here. However, my Mother-in-law text Tyler stating she wants to do a birthday dinner that same night because it was convenient for his family. Tyler explained to her that we had plans and she was NOT happy. She fussed and babied her way into Tyler agreeing to make these dinner plans. Tyler is agreeing to this pretty much to shut her up so she doesn't start more drama and cause problems (because she will). We have to cancel half of our plans to do so. She sent me a text regaurding the new plans for Friday. I told her I was aware because we had to compromise our plans to make them. Shortly there after, Tyler forwards me a message she sent to him basicly saying that i don't give a shit about family plans and, because of that she is "disregaurding" my birthday all together and to forget about the plans.

Wow...

It really bothers me that she insists on creating drama all the time. This isn't the first time in the past few days she has caused drama for Tyler and I. She creates drama out of nothing. There is no reason for her to behave this way. Last week, she sent me a message saying her and my Father-in-law don't care about Tyler any more and that he was a fuck up. Obviously, I shared this message with Tyler. When he confronted her about what she had said, she told him it wasn't true and I was making things up. She knows Tyler and I are on thin ice. She knows that I am hanging on to this relationship by a thread hoping that things will work out. Why must she insist on doing shit that is only pushing me harder to walk away? I don't get it.

She is flipping crazy.

.::UPDATE::.

I made it aware to her that Tyler forwarded me the message and told her how I felt about it. (Tyler forwarded me the messge you sent him. All I can say is wow... I just wanted to let you know we compromised our plans to make these family plans. However, if this is how you are going to behave that's alright. We don't have to go to dinner.) She sent me an essay back apologizing and now the plans are back in place... how she wants them. It bothers me that she cries and fusses her way into getting what she wants. Thats what my 3 year old and 18 month old toddlers do... She's an adult. Come on...

Sounds like a stereotypical antagonistic mother in law, yeesh...
» randomjunk on 2013-02-20 02:52:00

The guilt trip... I always hated the guilt trip. "Well, that's okay if you don't want to go out with me. I'll just go all by myself and it just won't be the same. . . " It's now Friday; I hope the plans you made turn out to be a lot of fun =)
» LostSoul13 on 2013-02-22 03:00:55

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