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Friends, what?
Sunday, September 11, 2011
Recently, I was told sort of a top secret due to my frankness on some matters. I think it was a privilige to know this secret, but I wasn't happy at all to know. I rather not know it, because the reason I was told because I seem to be able to get along with a difficult character friend. I would say it was rather I have given the impression that I am able to control this difficult person. I was quite disappointed to know the reason.

I only get to know this friend for a short time, but I think I understand how his brain functions and the reasons behind his questions thrown in the meeting. This friend doesn't have any vile intentions, but somehow our friends seem to always understood people who posed critical analysed questions. I also never understood the reason behind it. I was even told to just follow the flow. I think that is ridiculous, because no matter what, we all can't follow something without asking even one question. It's not that I don't have any trust, but then it just makes sense to me to ask questions to have a clearer direction. Is there anything wrong with it?

Well, for example: you are not allowed to ask what colour your wedding theme is. It's your wedding and you can't ask? And the reply is ... just follow la. What if you want to chip in your ideas too? But unfortunately you are not allowed to ask. If you ask, you will be marked as rebel, danger, and looking for trouble.

Somehow I really appreciate if people just give a chance to themselves to try to understand other people, not gossiping first. If the person who told me the secret would just sit down with this difficult friend of ours, this misunderstanding would dissolve over a cuppa coffee.
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I understand where you are coming from. There are quite a lot of people who doesn't want or doesn't bother to understand where someone is coming from thus causing all the gossips, hatred and other negative feelings towards another whom think differently from them.
» Nuttz on 2011-09-11 12:01:00

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» (109.194.136.10) on 2011-09-12 02:11:06

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