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Wait...hell DID freeze over!!
Saturday. 4.7.07 7:21 pm
Luciana. Alana.

My brother got a ticket on Friday. His break lights weren't working. It's gonna be 100 dollars.
My headlights were'nt on. It cost me 200 dollars.

Knight Rider. Snoopy.
I was at Wal-Mart last night. I wanted to make a special box for Kelly since it's her Senior Recital on Wed. As I neared my car I heard someone call to me. I turned around thinking it was a friend and saw someone I didn't know. He approached me and said he had noticed me inside the store. He handed me a slip of paper. His name. His number. Snoopy. "it's ok to have friends". I had no idea what had just happened.
"Hey, well - I'm in town until tomorrow morning and I was wondering if you wouldn't mind showing me around town?"
"um, well there's not much to see and I kind of have some stuff to do"
"well, I wouldn't mind waiting for you - we could go see a movie or something"
"um, no that's alright - and most movie's have already started right about now so..."
"we could just talk then..."

I didn't know how to get away - this has NEVER happened before. It started off alright I guess but, then quickly took a change of pace.
"so, you have a boyfriend?"
"no....lol, you're actually the first guy to ever give me their number"
"what? why?"
"*shrug* dunno"
"wait......you're PURE?!"

and right there I wanted to run, and die somewhere. His eyes opened wide and he all but jumped around like a 5 year old kid at Christmas. It made me feel horrible, dirty, and the farthest thing from 'pure' that I can ever imagine being. I tried to end it, he wouldn't have it. I had my phone in my hand 'cause I had been talking to my brother - he had me call his cell so he would have my number. I dialed it wrong the first time, he asked I do it a second time - I didn't know how to say no. I called. He saved my phone number. I got home and told my brother - he asked if I was alright, said yes, he gave me a hug and asked if I wanted him to buy me some mace. Laughed and said nah, that I was fine. Then, he started calling...and calling...and calling...and calling. I didn't want to meet up with him. I didn't want to talk to him. As I told my friend about it, it made me cry. I have my reasons as to why. Half this/Half that...it doesn't matter. He called me again this morning, I nearly had my manager answer it - but thought that would be MORE rude of me than I was already being.

So, now I'm left wondering. Was this my brain being stupid like it usually is? Blowing something out of proportion which isn't all that big a deal? I mean, he wasn't ugly by any means, in fact, he was rather attractive - but I just spazzed. Was my reacton normal? Or...am I so NOT used to attention from guys that when it's shown I spaz and run away as quickly as humanly possible? I used to run all the time from guys I liked, then I stopped. I had found a guy who was worth keeping as a friend. If this is what dating is like - I'm not sure I want it. Not like that. Call me a stupid little girl with a romantic fantasy in her head - but if it's like that? Psh, count me out.

My dad's surgery went well. At first he had a little complication with all the medication he was on - but they got it fixed in a short amount of time. He got released today but can't yet make the drive home so he'll be staying with my grandma for a week or so. Poor man, he's been through enough. Lol, j/k I heart my grams, she's got a temper on her alright, but she's a good woman. Thank you to all those who kept my dad in their prayers.

No, you're not blowing it out of proportion. I'm sure he was overly forceful and creepy, and not getting the "You scare me" vibe you were giving off. I hate it when people don't pick that up. I feel so rude running away and telling them off...b ut they never get the point.
» ikimashokie on 2007-04-07 08:06:33

You should of explained more on why you cried.

And not only did you not run, you chained yourself to the spot and that poor poor guy, too. I feel sorry for that friend of yours.
» elessar257 on 2007-04-08 12:30:03

I think I would have been a lil freaked out too..... Panic not hun! (wait.. you did that bit already! :D )

Glad your dad is ok, I was wondering about him! :)
» LittleBrit on 2007-04-08 11:41:51

yeah, no, that guy was super creepy... like... "I saw you in the store"? That's not how you meet people. And why the hell is he going after you when he's just leaving tomorrow? And that weird crap about you being PURE? Crrreeeeepyyyyy! I had this awkward experience once where this guy started talking to me while I was walking home from the tram stop and then he walked all the way to my apartment and I had to ring my own number because my visiting friend had my key... and so I couldn't lie to him about which number was mine, because he was asking, and he was from like Togo and like 40 and he kept being like, "Oh, I can come and visit you sometime, number 11? I can just come up and visit, I live right nearby." and I mean, of course he was civil and polite, but nice, not-creepy guys don't do any of those things, so you are perfectly within your right to be rude to them. And you ALWAYS have a boyfriend. ALWAYS. And you always just got off the phone with him and you're always leaving to go meet up with him at that exact moment. I got that advice from a random golf-cart beverage girl the first day I started in the golf-cart beverage business.
» Zanzibar on 2007-04-10 09:28:04

I should have made each one of those words a different comment, then I would be well on my way to 1000. :D
» Zanzibar on 2007-04-10 02:09:16

The dude was a creep. Dating's not like that, but you can run into freaky, creepy, weirdo bastards like that. I'd say the best thing to do is develop a poker face and a smooth lie. Just go "Sorry, I have a boyfriend," to all the losers that come after you and then call up your bro.

Or you can kick them in the balls and flee.
» DarkDragonKnight on 2007-04-11 12:55:52

I like how everyone assumes that you can lie.

They're funny.
» elessar257 on 2007-04-12 01:38:28

haha, it doesn't have to be a good lie, elessar.
» Zanzibar on 2007-04-15 04:40:29

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