On Fri night I caught up with Mel and Gail at Wagamama in Subi. It was a really nice feeling to be going out and having supper with the girls. I have not done that in a while and it was good cuz it was something I was doing to keep me sane. Funny how the topic was mostly about Danae and how she is currently dating a older man and she has done so for 2 years now. And it is funny how we have never met him before. We have this perception of him that is probably untrue, but it isn't a very nice one.

I dont want to judge him without meeting him. But it is hard, especially since he refuses to meet with us or go to any of our functions. I am usually accepting of people, but when they have left it for 2 years to meet the gang it means they are probably stuck up and have no interest in 24 year old. Cuz he is 44! I just hope to god Danae knows what she is doing and wish her all the best. It is my natural instincts to be over protective of her.

And Mel came to Wagamama without her new bf! Whoa it was a first, they have been dating for 6 months and are inseparable! It is hard to get together to have a girls gathering. I guess as we grow older, we grow a part. I had hoped all the bfs, would some day become husbands and we could have a big group where everyone is happy and comfortable with on another. Gail still labels me as the "typical mum", saying I should be at home and not going out so much, also when I wanted a glass of plum wine she was a bit dissapproving. And when some guys make flattery comments at me..she thinks I should be more low key.

But I tell my friends being married and with a kid doesn't change me as a person. Mel is starting to see that being married and with a kid at a young age can actually be fun and fufilling. I keep telling them that, I am not missing out, I'm not miserable, but they think I am. Yeh..i cant travel and venture out on my own...but I can travel with my hubby and Sofia. Which is even better, cuz I'm not alone, and have fun with my 2 favourite people. Yeh so it sounds like babies cost a lot, but hey I only really pay for nappies! And Sofia's presence out weighs any cost, she lights up my darkest days! It made me feel quite special when Mel said it looks like I got it all together and I can do it all. I ensured her being a full time working mum, is definitely an adventure...life is never boring. I am always kept on my toes. :)

Lucky for me tonight, I am going to the movies with F to watch 'Indiana Jones'. I can't wait..so we still have our dates and leave the baby with the grandparents. Life is sweet at the moment. :D

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