Why do some men have to be so hard to figure out? Today at lunch me and my girls were chatting about the very stubborn and hard to read men. There was only an hour of lunch so we had to get straight to the point, well one of us anyways who has trouble with how to convince her man she is unhappy. It�s always in those beginning stages of a relationship when everything is supposedly meant to be smooth sailing, little annoyances are ignored because you want to keep liking the person. Therefore chosing to shut up than to speak out one�s feelings.

This particularly applies to women, because we like to say �nothing is wrong�, nothing is ever wrong. But of course THERE IS! We assume the man should know what to do in these silent situations, and obviously know WHAT is wrong. Or he is not paying attention and being in-tuned to our feelings. My poor girlfriend, is spending Australia Day alone wishing to go to the fireworks and also invited him to the bbq this Sunday with her friends, but he declined. Also he did not show up to the invitation of meeting her family!! And it means a lot to her. His excuse is he is unsociable and busy working. But what she is reading is �doesn�t like me�, �can�t be bothered�, �doesn�t like her family�.

And what is this about not replying sms? And not taking a few mins in the day to call�or when men say they will call they DON�T. Honestly women need this, they crave it, to know that their man is thinking about them and cares for them. She doesn�t want to put all her heart in, only to be placed on the side. But men such complex creatures cannot understand this. I don�t know whether it is a game they play�it�s like putting a carrot infront of a horse, and tugging it inch by inch away. It really sucks and it is quite upsetting for a woman�s emotional wellbeing. I am so glad I am out of that scene, of dating, playing flirt games etc. Honestly it makes me wanna puke! And to just paint a small picture, he is 35 and she is 23. Honestly do adults still have to play games?

Okay I am meant to say grow up boys and girls!

23 and 35? wow. i know it's hard to read a man and man is also having difficulties in understanding women... that's very funny.
» renaye on 2008-01-25 09:12:15

it must be the whole men are from mars women are from venus theory. hehe.
» von-nation on 2008-01-25 11:11:11

my sis has lent me money when i was in trouble and i told her i will return them. but not at the moment since i myself don't even have much savings and her earning power is twice mine. i actually told her that it would be better to return her money when she's studying masters full time. at least she has some money going into her account when she's not working.
» renaye on 2008-01-27 06:35:33

I thank god that I don't have a boyfriend yet. Though I'd like to suggest that friend of yours to just tell her boyfriend straight out that she's not happy and if he can't get it, break up. Though it's always easier to be said than done.
» Nuttz on 2008-01-27 09:44:28

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