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Policies of Von-Nation
*~ Be happy, think positive, SMILE!
*~ Love simply
*~ Live the day like there is no tomorrow
*~ Live without regrets
*~ Dispose of your rubbish carefully
*~ Reduce your usage of plastic shopping bags
*~ Love the world, be charitable
*~ Respect Cross-cultural relationships
*~ Respect same-sex relationships
*~ Be kind to your family, respect ur parents
*~ Enjoy song & dance
*~ Swear till your hearts' content
*~ Love who you are and be satisfied
*~ Eat when u r hungry
*~ Money is not the most important thing
*~ Have faith in something you feel strongly about
*~ Respect all religions
*~ Don't take life so seriously
*~ Give hugs
*~ Have manners! Be polite
*~ Cherish ur group of friends
*~ Don't talk shit, get to the pt
*~ Be passionate about your job
*~ Invest in a good eye cream
*~ Don't waste food
*~ Respect elders
*~ Don't be afraid to have a say!
*~ Love animals

Subject to alteration..
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Adoption
Count me in
to be accepted
Sunday. 10.2.05 7:57pm
Maybe I want to be accepted by others too much. Not to the extent that I will change myself, but if I can't live up to their expectations I just feel like I have let them down. It could be why I stress so much, about reaching outcomes at work and at uni. I have this tendency to be harmonious with others and not have any conflict. But by making everyone happy and not myself, it causes a lot of frustrations which I take out on others sometimes...

Sometimes you can feel so overloaded with things to do for people, you never do anything for yourself. I need to do something for myself to be balanced in my life. Does anyone else feel that way?

I find that doing things for people make me happy, and that they can depend on me and appreciate the things that I do for them. But when I go against my promise and let them down it affects me quite a bit. For example, F's Bro Carlos, by not keeping to my promise I can be very hard on myself and feel bad. I also get stressed when I couldn't get the tickets of ASIA cocktail to Ron in time. :(

But it was all well on Saturday when I felt rested with F and had a chat to his mum and older bro, and they reminded me not to take things so seriously. I have started to take things seriously since starting work. Plus I was quite happy and felt really warmed when F's mum gave me a hug and kiss goodbye...kinda made me feel apart of the family and to be "accepted". :)

How was everyone's weekend? I have uploaded more pics to flickr (see left) from the ASIA cocktail party. Go and take a lookie!!
3 Comments.


i know how it feels to feel overloaded..tehh~~ thats what i feel right now, =P. well there's always a bright side hahah! & you even got a hug n kiss goodbye. hehh! and your new pics on your flickr are nice! && thanks for your last comment =)
» kimchee on 2005-10-02 10:27:51

hello~
I think wanting to be accepted is a habit asian ppl pick up. Most of what they do is to get approval and stuff but with the generation after mine I see that all deteriorating.. I'm normally one to do things for others because it makes me happy too but lately I've been trying out this concept of "putting myself first" and i think its necessary depending on the situation. Flickr?? how much is that? xoxxo
» Phoid_hearted on 2005-10-03 05:27:31

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