Hmmm...lately- why are my friends wondering what is the best possible way to dump a guy! Or to tell them they are not interested! It seriously is TOUGH to do...and dumping should not occur unless you are REALLY REALLY sure about it. I mean telling a guy your are not interested in them is a bit easier becuz you have not been in a r'ship yet.

Advice for that, just tell them nicely. Don't put up the "let's be friends" phrase, cuz I know it's a stab in the heart. Treat them like humans and just think of what kinda of response you would like to hear if they were not interested in you. Hmmm... Tell them the truth "I don't have those sorts of feelings towards you..". They just have to accept that they cannot make anyone automatically like them, just because they want to. The truth is always best...never good to lead a person on, cuz it just hurts more. Just reassure them they are a cool person to hang out with, but... just "those" feelings aren't there...

About breaking up or "dumping" (which is so harsh :/) it is pretty hard. You have to have a good reason..something is either wrong with you, them or the future. And AGAIN the truth HELPS! My friend just realised that he does not love his partner anymore and does not want it to go on further cuz he sees no future. I think...that if you don't have certainty about a r'ship, and that there is no common goal or future then it is best to let them go. The signs are usually this if you really love a person, then keep em:

- you love them beyond physical appearance
- you want to satify them more than you do yourself
- you are happy spending money on them and don't care how much
- you will come to their aid wheneva they need you
- time is not an issue, you don't think about it when you spend it with them
- you see yourself having a family together and living a life together
- care for them more than you care for yourself
- love them for their past

Those are the main ones I think. I wonder if I left anything out (???) But if you do not feel all those things for a person, then no point in continuing a r'ship. I mean...what's the use of letting it drag? It's just painful for both parties. I wish my friend the best of luck...hopefully he can just speak his heart and still remain friends with his ex-partner. Cuz...something did happen between them, something was there... it can't be forgotten so why not still stay pals?

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