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Wednesday. 10.12.05 10:42 pm
GARHHH! I've just been called a guy!

Sexists! SEXISTS! (YES, I MEAN YOU! *Jabs a finger at the Uber Bitch, Fungus, and Penang Boy*)

All because I admitted to preferring a less-strings-attached type of relationship. The type where I shudder at the thought of anything lasting longer than a month. And where the merest hint of romance gives me rashes. And in which I find it almost impossible to pronounce the word "commitment" wihout a sneer.

But how does that make me a guy?!

It's so sexist to presume that one needs a pair of balls to avoid returning phone calls. How very cocky! (Har har, couldn't resist that one.)

In retrospect though, perhaps answering to "James" wasn't such a good idea.

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21 Comments.


No, that doesn't make you a guy...
I know many women that prefer casual sex. It's just that so many guys have no idea that they can have the no-strings-attached relationship because they don't know how to communicate the right things to such a women. They think buying her gifts and kissing her ass all the time will attract these types. That's how you attract a wife, not a sweet thang. It's not a sexist comment, it's an uninformed comment.
» DeeVeuS on 2005-10-12 10:43:13

I dunno about you, but being a somewhat egoistic bird-brained hot blooded straight male, being called a gay* is worse. *Smart homosexuals (as they usually are) would know that this is just a personal view. Damn!
» Beer Brat (198.16.9.10) on 2005-10-12 08:39:43

It's okay. I hate being called gay too. Even though I'm as gay as a cupful of confetti. Haven't you watched Sex And The City? Their very first episode dealth with women who had sex like men--and I presume it is sex talking, right? Why on earth would anyone want a month long relationship that doesn't involve romance if it wasn't for the sex? And yes, sex is almost all that gay men think about, partly because we have it like, on tap.
» Will (218.208.41.164) on 2005-10-13 02:34:53

Hey you, have not heard from you in a while. Where the hell have you been??? The last time i saw you, you almost killed me. Anyways, we have to catch up. my blog is. http://themonkeysfart.blogspot.com See you soon and take care.
» Vimalan (60.50.240.112) on 2005-10-14 10:55:42

Guess I'm gonna have to be the 'girl' here :) Sex is something I think about all the time too but that's not all, of course. i think about long chats in teh evening, walking by the beach.. that kinda sappy Hallmark moments. I like commitment... I like guarantees. I like a guy who'd stay forever. Fuck. I do sound like a girl! Beer brat. It's no problem.. just wondering why you're called gay. Paul
» Paul (219.95.188.39) on 2005-10-15 03:18:16

Hehe. Hold it there, Paul, hold it there.
» Beer Brat (202.156.6.69) on 2005-10-15 09:25:29

How does one communicate a less-strings-attached want to a girl, anyway? I'm not asking like it's impossible; I'm asking how.
» Albert Ng (219.95.36.78) on 2005-10-15 01:05:16

Chill.....I have a fair share of experience people doubting and showing concern about my sexual orientation too. haha I think they are the ones having serious problem with themselves, guessing who's gay and who's not. I think they are gay themselves if they knew how to spot one. Good grief! hehe Of course, I am actually quite offended (felt worse when I was still a hotheaded angry twentysomething) with these remarks. But nowadays i will just laughed it off. It even takes me quite a long time to accept a friend telling me he's gay. He freaks me out initially. He is still one of my good friend. Homely, single lad like me who knows how to cook, bake, salsa, volunteer and care is constant target of these remarks..lagi worse.... tsk tsk.... Chill....
» souplad (202.156.6.69) on 2005-10-16 11:34:22

Deeveus: Someone buying me gifts and kissing my ass...mmMmm...sounds like a sugar daddy, actually. Wouldn't mind getting meself one of those, lol!

BeerBrat: How about being called a gay guy in a female body?

Will:Yes, flaunt your Mile High sexcapades, go on. *Glower*

Uncle Black: It's been AGES! I'm still trying to get over my failure last time...don't worry, I'll get it right next time. It just takes a bit more pressure on the accelerator. *Wicked grin*

Paul: SEXIST!!!!! It doesn't have to be a 'girly' thing!! Haha. Well, I do think about having someone with a lap I could just curl up in. Or someone I could cook dinner with...or rather, he could cook dinner and I could run around getting in his way and burning sauce into the pot.

Labert: I suppose you could just not call her back. HAHAHA! Well, just tell her. Either she'll breathe a huge sigh of relief at not having to think of a way to shake you off, or she'll burst into tears and drown herself in the toilet bowl. But at least you're not leading her on. Which just means a helluva lot of emotional baggage for you.

souplad: If you know how to clean as well, I'm yours.


» theZEBRA on 2005-10-17 08:21:59

oi.. i didn't call you a guy la.. it was all daniel.. all i did was just laugh at it! cause it was so farny.. hahahha
» jase (211.24.251.91) on 2005-10-19 11:58:25

You ALWAYS call me a guy!!!
» theZEBRA on 2005-10-20 03:54:00

aiyar... i only called you that after the labeling began ma.. cause it was farny to call you that adi...
» jase (211.24.251.91) on 2005-10-20 09:59:17

I'm a sensitive soul, you know.
» theZEBRA on 2005-10-20 10:34:08

yeah yeah... birds of a feather flock together =P
» jase (211.24.251.91) on 2005-10-21 06:05:38

Meaning you've got GID as well? I heartily agree that you're suffering from the disorder.
» theZEBRA on 2005-10-21 07:08:16

huh.. what does you being called a man have anything related to having GID?
» jase (211.24.251.91) on 2005-10-21 10:00:06

birds of a feather, woman. Birds of a feather.
» theZEBRA on 2005-10-21 10:30:41

Help is on the way
That is a big thing against you. In my opinion you may be one of the may guys who have this kind of problem. I can always help you if you want to. Just visit my website and you can get tips there on the best things you can do.
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