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Pictures = betrayal
Monday, January 3, 2011
There is one thing I dislike about facebook is the photo album division. Funny. I don't have any problems in uploading photos whatsoever. On the contrary, I don't like certain photos uploaded by my friends on facebook. Simply because I can see - from the photos - whether I'm invited to gatherings and events or not.

On one occasion, a friend I got to know back in college came back to Kuala Lumpur for Christmas holiday. She is actually one of the staff in my college, who took care of the Malaysian students when were still 'kids'. So we have quite a close relationship with her. And apparently, one of my collegemates organised a dinner gathering with this staff with other collegemates in a shopping mall. I was angry when I saw the picture taken during their dinner on facebook. Simply because I was not in the photo.

Wait ... wait .... hang on. Listen to my explanation. What I mean is how come I'm not invited to have dinner with that staff? I'm also quite close to her. But the good question is if I'm close to her, how come I don't have her contact? But the other collegemates in the photo also don't have her contact. What is your point, renaye?

Fine. I know I was not invited to a previous gathering for one of my collegemates who was returning to Malaysia from Japan for good. In the photo, every collegemate I know attended the gathering, even my good collegemate friend who is always 'missing' in life was there! All except for me. I was kind of furious, but I let it passed because I had a fight with that collegemate who came back from Japan.

And just now ... my collegemate uploaded a photo of her New Year gathering on facebook. It's a no big deal, but all collegemates were in the photo except for me?! And I didn't even know about it? After checking out the photos, I raced to my mailbox to check if I received any invitation, but none. And the title of the photo album made me sick (or sad): New Year gathering with my (college name) gang. Right. I mis-deciphered. The title can be interpreted as 'her gang from my college' not everyone in particular.

So? My point is? I seriously don't know. I just thought it's just not nice to invite everyone from my college and leaving me out. Am I hurt? hmm.. just mediocre. HAHA.

But there was one point it saddened me to see every collegemate in a photo except for my face. I felt a little hurt when I went through the New Year gathering album on facebook, but my subconscious mind told me: I also had my share of fun. To be frank, I did have my share of fun. I'm always meeting new people and adding new people on facebook, and my friends uploaded photos of me on facebook. In the photos, I was smiling with them.

So what more can I ask for? God has given me opportunities to make new memories with new people. I have wonderful memories with my collegemates, but life just goes on. I now have friends who think alike as me. What more can I ask for?

And if their photos saddened me, there's also a possibility of them feeling sad or mediocre after seeing my photos on facebook.

In short, I also have had my share of fun. And will always have ...
8 Comments.


It always feels bad to be left out. I hate that feeling. This is why I always try to invite everyone to everything. Even more annoying sometimes is when they don't invite you, and then try to hide the photos or evidence that they had a get-together... then you know that they thought about you, you know that they thought that you might be hurt by not being invited, and then they deliberately didn't invite you anyway. :( A bad feeling.

But you're good to be so mature about it. After all, you have loving friends and a good life; that's all you really need in the end.
» Zanzibar on 2011-01-03 10:09:21

Sometimes it is a blessing not to be invited.
» mun (124.82.59.179) on 2011-01-04 11:33:01

I feel ya!
I know how you feel. It is quite awkward seeing photos of your friends meeting up without you. You run through all these thoughts in your head of why they left you out. Sometimes they assume you will be busy..still that's not an excuse! Don't worry about it too much, maybe next time you see them just drop a hint you saw the pictures on FB and jokingly say 'where was my invite?'
» von-nation on 2011-01-05 09:10:46

You are so awesome
This entry for sure has a sad side but I'm so impressed how you handled it.

I'm glad you're having fun!! I hope it stays that way for ever and ever
» The-Muffin-Man on 2011-01-05 03:55:55

I know what you mean. It really sucks to see a parade of facebook photos of events you weren't invited to. Life Muffin-man said, though, I'm really impressed with how you're handling it. I mean looking to God for guidance and seeing the bright side, that's what life's about! Really inspiring.
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