Speak to My Finger

I don't really care who lied. This character called JJ in a series called American Dreams on Hallmark channel was confessing to his girlfriend, Beth, that he lied to her. He was with another girl in her apartment, doing nothing, while he was away for the 3 weeks with his whatever valid reasons he has given to Beth. And she believed it.

So when JJ told her the truth she was crying and beating his chest for sleeping with the other girl. It was a boring scene to tell the truth. And I don't understand what is the big deal if your boyfriend or girlfriend slept with another person besides you? Is there anything wrong with my thinking or yours? I actually don't see why not, moreover, it's not after marriage. Even marriage, I don't see why not. Marriage is just a name for you to have sex legally. You don't have to hide the hatchett that you have make whoever that girl is pregnant when you married her. And what are the repercussions?? Maybe you might just get AIDS, and other sexual related diseases. No big deal. It's not the end of the world yet though.

Maybe some people would leave this as a comment: Do I mind if my boyfriend/ husband have sex with someone else? I actually don't care because of a few reasons: 1) I have no boyfriend to begin with, 2) I love myself too much, I'm a narcissist, 3) I don't believe in marriage because I have met too many stupid men which makes me think for the 100th time I don't want to get married, and 4) my dreams never involve any men, marriage or kids, never even thought about it.

But I have thought of pets as companions. :D

I'm still single and haven't had any relationshop with any girl yet, though I'm CARE of her attitude. No matter what reasons she gives, I probably would break up this relationship.
» kevin14 on 2009-03-27 01:38:10

Kevin nobody understands lonley like me.
I never been on a date in my life. I am 25 years old. It's not that I don't want one! I am too stinkin picky.
» jacyhenry on 2009-03-27 01:15:37

It's a big deal if the person you're seeing or to whom you're married to is cheating on you. It's after all a relationship built on a bond of trust. Once broken, hard to mend. I believe in marriage. It's just that people don't respect the sanctity of marriage and mess it up.
» Mei Teng (218.208.32.220) on 2009-03-27 10:52:22

Still, a lot of people do care, and this shows you can't cheat and get away with it. Nor should you condone cheaters who lie to cheat.
» JL (120.140.112.222) on 2009-03-30 07:00:41

You really think it's OK to sleep around even after marriage? I don't know but for me, that's wrong. What's the point of marriage then?

But I do know a lot of people who do that. I would think it's better for them not to get married.
» foongpc (60.48.118.88) on 2009-03-30 08:56:27

guess what, i used to think that i might stay single for the rest of my life, not having kids/family just like what you have thought! but guess what, it all changes when i found the love of my life. hmm...perhaps don't make that statement too early huh? :) ohhh...i'm missing home already...huhu
» sdovelly (203.8.7.222) on 2009-03-30 06:22:10

RE:
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» crz4manga on 2009-03-30 11:43:03

personally, i feel that lies don't only matters for couples, let it be married or unmarried. even friends tend to lie among each others. however, it is a serious matter for me. since i only hold strong to those that treat me truthfully. =)
» levian (124.82.106.70) on 2009-03-31 03:28:20

its really hard to fine a true best fren =(
» Behold-The-Persuasion on 2009-03-31 05:43:15

Oh my god! That song makes me fall in love with her... And I like the MV as well... Very Taylor S. style!
» kevin14 on 2009-03-31 05:52:52

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» Frederick (222.165.130.214) on 2010-08-29 11:02:02

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