So what are the words that being said to me which I did great injustice to myself?

1. "So I didn't know you have been busy sleeping around."

What did I say before that? "Yea, yesterday I went yumcha with my girl and boy friends.

We were just instagramming and catching up. Right.

2. "You are being so rude."

What did I say before that? Just poking your radio. Ok my fault. But you said so many mean words like "Oh she has no talent at all" to you group of friends after introducing me. Another famous one is "I don't like your confidence."

Of course, mind you. I was just providing snippets of the conversations.

3. "Oh you are just being picky"

What did I say after that instead of slapping you? Well, everyone wants to have a happy ending including me. Don't you agree?

You just can't simply get your friend to marry someone for the sake of having a relationship for God sake. If you are happily married, I am very happy for you but why pressure others?

If you are concerned about my welfare, why not say it like you really mean it instead of a patronising tone?

I am picky, so? If the guy who is tackling me is violent, abusive and a narcissist, should I still say YES to them? I should say yes even though I know they will ABUSE me physically, mentally and emotionally during marriage? Yes? Just for the sake of 'getting married'? If you were me, would you do it?

Whose fucking brilliant idea is that?

So tell me, how should I handle such friends?

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