Title? Don't ask.

So let's see... boyfriend wants me to move south to be with him. Nay, I say. I'm worried about expenses, for one thing. Also I don't like southern California. Plus it's kind of a big deal to move. Once I've finished a year at the local community college and I'm going to transfer, it'll make more sense, but for now, there are more pros if I stay here.

Maybe we can discuss it with my parents when he comes to visit.

ALSO: Clubbing tonight, I think. That made for an interesting discussion.

Not the exact transcript, but close enough:

Him: Don't get raped.
Me: I won't.
Him: It could happen.
Me: I think my friends would notice if I disappeared. Anyway I'm not dolling myself up or anything, so it's not like I'll look super sexy.
Him: Until someone with an asian fetish comes along...
Me: Then he can hit on Lucy. :P
Him: Or you. Maybe I should date Lucy instead; at least she goes to school here. I don't think she'd want to date me though, and I wouldn't be happy with her.
Me: I dunno, guys go for her cuteness...
Him: She's cute, but it's not the same as being hot, and I think that's more important in a club.
Me: Uh, I'm not hot either.
Him: -Sigh-
Me: What? You think I am? :0
Him: Low self esteem.
Me: It's not low self esteem, I'm just saying, I'm not hot. Cute, yeah, maybe even pretty, but not hot... nor sexy or whatever.
Him: If you dressed for it you would be. Not that I'm saying you should.

My reaction was basically surprise and amusement. He's said I'm cute when I'm being tickled but I think that's about it... So yeah, this was definitely unexpected. Not sure what to make of it. :S Maybe I should, y'know, actually start caring about how I look or something.

lol now it does :p

and first kiss? that is correct

and yea, I dunno, caring a bit about how you looked, wouldn't hurt i guess :-p
» CPKviperpheonix on 2010-08-05 03:08:54

Caring about how you look is quite important but it is not the same as being obsessed about how you look. I make sure I like how I look before I get out of the house cause at the end of the day, its what you think that is important.

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Acne can be caused by a bunch of other things like imbalanced hormones, bad digestion, lack of sleep, etc.
» Nuttz on 2010-08-05 09:47:16

heh heh. Trader Joe's isn't as bad as Whole Foods. And I give people in California a bit of a break since Trader Joe's are more common there. But people out here, if you shop at Trader Joe's it's because you're like, "I'm so hip and relevant, I know things about California, I shop at Trader Joe's because they have a sustainable [buzzword]." I'm like, "You're from Rhode Island. Chill out."
» Zanzibar on 2010-08-08 02:36:30

:P
ps, that's def a weird conversation, I see it as a guy who likes you and who is trying to say the right thing, but keeps falling into a million pitfalls and traps and so therefore says the wrong thing, then tries to get out of it and digs another hole. Here is my transcript: "I like you. I wish you would move here. I don't like the idea that you're going out to a club because I think you're hot and every guy is going to want you and hit on you and maybe you'll like them and forget about me. I don't want to diss your friend because then you might get mad because she's your friend, but I also don't want to say she's pretty because then you might think that I like her but I don't, I actually like you.... oh no, now you're saying you're not hot, but you are, am I supposed to reaffirm that you're hot or would that be a sexist remark? ahhh, I'm a boy I don't know what to say!!!"
» Zanzibar on 2010-08-08 02:40:59

haha, yeah, but I mean that him liking you and you being his girlfriend confuses all of his senses
» Zanzibar on 2010-08-08 01:52:27

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