We had this discussion today in English class. One person said that in a relationship, there are ups and downs, and people fight to express their emotions. If a person refuses to lay their hands on their partner, that's just equivalent to giving it up, and not giving it a chance. Therefore, guy should lay their hands on a girl if they want to continue on with the relationship.

What. Duh. Heo.

Okay, I have never been in love, but if the guy lays his hands on me and I CAN'T lay my hands on HIM. There's going to be some serious issues going on.

Either you hurt me and let me hurt you back and we both get hurt together with the same amount of bruises, or you don't hurt me at all.

I'm not being a feminist, but c'mon... A man shouldn't hurt his woman. Yeah jokingly smacking their butt, sure (if they think it's okay), but slapping her across the face 'occasionally' or 'during a fight'? Control yourself =_= Hit a pillow or something.

Now if that's 'true love', fine. I'll let him hit me. Then when he's sleeping. I'm going to make sure ALL HELL GETS LOSE and that he is unable to retaliates a single kungfu karate chop that I learn from The Karate Kid and uses on him.

(I mean the new one since it's a mix between karate and kungfu... No?)

Mark my words, my future husband.

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I agree
I let girls hit me and then I flick them. The flick hurts more at first, but over all I'm the one with bruises on my shoulders and I'm fine with that.

Hitting IS a way to display emotion, but there is nothing good about it. It's rage. There shouldn't be rage between two people in a relationship.
» middaymoon on 2010-11-08 04:43:27

I don't think hitting is ever an ok thing in a relationship. People shouldn't hit other people. Period. It is a matter of respect for the other person. If you fight with your "love" and that fight involves saying cruel things or hitting your partner, that isn't love at all, because you are missing that basic fundamental core feeling of respect for that person which makes it impossible for you to really hurt them, even when you're angry. Hitting your partner says nothing at all about how much you want the relationship or are willing to "fight" for it, it just says that you are completely uncivilized and don't know how to control yourself. Nobody wants to date someone like that, boy or girl.
» Zanzibar on 2010-11-08 05:17:29

ps- Emma Watson totally goes to my school.
» Zanzibar on 2010-11-08 05:18:31

ZANZI
Makin' me jealous.

HEY NOW my flicks are straight up brutal.
» middaymoon on 2010-11-08 07:48:24

haha, no I didn't yell at her. I don't think she even noticed me at all, ever. : Her and her blissful ignorance. :P
» Zanzibar on 2010-11-08 08:32:21

Haha my finger is a football player.
» middaymoon on 2010-11-08 08:56:47

dont listen to zanzi. she beat when i went to visit her because i was slow with her lemonade.
» undisputed on 2010-11-09 12:14:46

i like yours too. where is it? not sure about the girl in the banner though...
» undisputed on 2010-11-09 06:02:22

i think it's stupid that men have the license to hit a woman. wtf is the rational about that??? who is those stupid people from aeon that grants the license?? i just wonder...

nowadays ... i just whack people verbally (not physically yet) when they hurt me in a way that is beyond my accepted level.
» renaye on 2010-11-15 09:08:31

OMG IT'S YOU?! XD I actually stumbled upon your blog before!! and was gna totally rant on this entry about how if a guy hits a girl all my friends would report him to the police blah blah lol... but i didn't cos i didn't know (it was) you and thought it'd be inappropriate =p

so uh, yah. now that i know it's you:

FKN HELL NO GUY SHOULD HIT A GIRL UNLESS HE WANTS JAIL YO! twas one of the biggest reasons i broke up with my first bf. he asked me if i'd still give him a second chance if he took his temper out on me and beat me up.

yaaa---no.

violence = big no-no. think about it, if he can hit you once, he can hit you twice. then you'll end up with a face like rihanna.

it's ok for girls to hit guys tho ;) that, i do tres often wahahaha! x]
» Kuri on 2010-11-16 06:41:10

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