I need to stop pussy-footing around and just ACT next time. Also maybe keep my dating pool in another city and just...away.

In today's news, things are playing out exactly as last time, and at this point all I have to do is sit back and watch to see if it follows through.

And, yes, I am being purposefully vague.

Geez, quit being so vague already! We want to know all the details!

I can't believe that dude did that. One of my friends had confessed to me that she liked this one guy, and then a long while later he was acting weird towards her and she asked me, "Did you tell him what I said about liking him?" and I said, "Woah, what do I look like, the worst friend EVER???? Of course I didn't tell him!"

Apparently your friend is the worst friend ever. :/
» Zanzibar on 2011-07-17 05:41:21

ps--- your layout is sooOOoOoOooo cool.
» Zanzibar on 2011-07-17 05:41:50

oooooh, now I SEE what he did!!! Sonofthebeach!
» Zanzibar on 2011-07-17 06:04:04

Dude. You like to think on things for a while and play it cool with your ladies. That ISN'T a bad thing. Taking it slow and being friends for a while is the normal, healthy thing to do. People who swoop in spontaneously are typically unstable flight risks, and I know from experience that those relationships DON'T last. Because I WAS one of those flight risks.

So, no, you didn't do anything wrong. You don't need to stop "pussy-footing." You're the healthiest of all of us. Shut up. /abuse


And I'm sorry that it happened again.
» Unicornasaurus on 2011-07-17 06:05:52

Gonna quote a guy from youtube and tell you not to listen to any of "yo single-ass friends."

I think most people need to be friends, first. When you skip that, there's a big chunk of that person that you don't see. Plus, it's a lot easier to give up on someone you don't know than to give up on a friend. Easier to break things off. Whatever. Just...attraction is immediate, love and intimacy is gradual. Ask yourself which one this "friend" acts on, and which one *you* act on.

It's pretty clear, once you do that, who really screwed up.
» Unicornasaurus on 2011-07-17 07:53:21

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