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lazypuppy
Age. 39
Gender. Female
Ethnicity. Caucasian
Location Northglenn, CO
School. Other
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hmm...
Friday. 2.2.07 12:42 pm
Since Brian and I now have our money combined into my checking account, I can check to see what things are being bought and whatnot...

Brian's been out drinking 3 times this week. He went out on the 29th, the 30th, and again last night. One of those nights, he lied about it...he told me he was over at his friend's house modifying his xbox (which I believe)...but I mean, he was over there for hours and he said that it was a major pain in the ass to mod and that's what was taking so long. He's modded a bajillion xboxes before and I thought it was strange that it was taking him so long...LOW AND BEHOLD...I check the bank account, and there's a charge from the damn Old Chicago.

He comes home at 1am and then goes to bed...

Me, I've been at home all day with the baby. I give him all my time and attention (to the point I get no sleep, NADA...I can't even take a shower!). It just pisses me off that he could go out and then specifically lie to me about it...yet use the damn bank card so I can see where he went. The fact that he also went there the day after that...and then again last night, it fucking pisses me off.

I mean, we're trying to save money here and he's out having drinks every fucking night! Hell, you'd think spending time with your son and giving your girlfriend a break (who's been up and down, feeding, changing diapers, occupying the baby all day - on top of cleaning up Brian's messes for the most part...fixing dinner, doing the laundry, etc.) would be more of a priority...BUT...I guess not.

Seriously, I don't think he's grown up one bit since our son has arrived. I guess I have a taste of what it's like to be a single parent taking care of two kids...grr...
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pyrogrrl12
11 Comments.


damn. i feel bad for you.
u should talk to him. but then he might get defensive. its a guy thing to have control and power i guess. idk. talk to him is best advice i can give. :)
» ariel-can on 2007-02-02 01:05:43

This seems to be a common occurrence in the world of women having kids.
» ikimashokie on 2007-02-02 01:25:00

wow...
I feel for you. I have no idea what that would be like since my boyfriend isn't very social and his friends either live down in southern Cali or across the US. I hope things get better. I know how hard it can be to save money. I'm have a very hard time doing it. :(

I took off my bra, even though I'm still at work. shhhh... hehe Our CCO who has to read my blog to make sure I don't give out client or rep info mentioned how he doubted anyone would notice. If anyone has they've been nice enough to keep their mouth shut about it. XD
» Katrina on 2007-02-02 04:05:40

Maybe you should go to the bar and tell the bartender to not let him have any drinks. :P
» randomjunk on 2007-02-02 06:06:07

I've applied to 3 other schools, but UC Riverside is accepting people a month earlier than the other UC schools.
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You should talk to him. It's not fair that you're doing all the parenting while he's out drinking. And I like randomjunk's suggestion. haha. :)
» dis1girl on 2007-02-02 06:41:41

PSST!
Avvie contest voting is going on now. :p
» ikimashokie on 2007-02-02 09:22:11

Aw, poor dear. *pat pat* How about I come and take over for you? Time for you to run over to the bar and shout "Hah!". In your face, mister! ('-^)=b
» Silver-dot- on 2007-02-02 09:52:26

Voted
I voted for your avie's in the contest. They were nice!
» kKAMa67 on 2007-02-02 10:06:32

aww, guys can be real assholes sometimes. his excuse {if confronted} would probably be 'but its HARD having a kid and taking care of him stresses me out!' That's a typical guy answer. they don't normally think about how much work we women do in this kind of situation. . . I kinda like Silver's idea :P
» LostSoul13 on 2007-02-02 11:01:15

Grr, the whole being lied to part would have put me through the roof. Well, I hope things get better. Take Care
» Princess_00 on 2007-02-03 01:18:10

I am here girl!
Good thing we did go out. How did it feel to have a drink after all this time? Like i have said before I am here to watch Greg if you want to go out or do something...even take a shower!
» pyrogrrl12 on 2007-02-03 02:05:35

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