IF A MAN FINDS YOU ATTRACTIVE YOU CANNOT BE FRIENDS:

Many women want to argue this point and say things like " I have lots of guy friends." Maybe. There are exactly 3 cases Intellectual Whores has identified whereby a guy and a girl can be friends:

1. The guy is gay
2. The guy does not find you attractive
3. The guy already has a woman much higher than you on the ladder

Even Nietzsche knew this. Most guys know this intuitively. Most girls doubt. I have a challenge for all of you girls who still doubt. Pick a guy who does not meet any of the criterion on the above list that you think is your friend. Then ask yourself this question: If you were both alone at his place one night, and you excused yourself to the bathroom and came out naked and asked him to have sex with you would he:

1. Tell you he doesn't want to risk the beautiful friendship you have created with messy physical entanglements.

2. Comply.

Nice.
Not one objection.
» DeeVeuS on 2006-01-12 12:23:48

3. He'd probably stare at me 'til I stormed off in discontentment
or something.

Having a friend who is a guy doesn't mean he wouldn't ever in 4325135 million years want to do you, but that he has enough respect for you to not act like it.
Or something like that.
» invisible on 2006-01-16 01:51:01

yea... I can go along with that invisble..(argh not again, 1st the fourms, then here)

but U know, I think that its possible outside of those 3 cases.. I know personally, if sum1 like Mege ( my former g/f)was 2 do that 2 me (excuse herself to the bathroom and came out naked and asked me to have sex with them would her) I would not just comply with it, espically since I know that she has another b/f now that she loves.
... but i dunno, ultimately, it just depends on the situation 2 me for if I guy and girl can be friends without matching the above....just I'm still friends with my ex g/f... and I still find her attractive...and I'm not gay, and I have no other woman on my mind higher than her currently... I guess it really depends on the exact situtation, it can be different depending...
» CPKviperpheonix on 2006-01-22 06:22:17

Well that is quite interesting...but with me, even if the girl i'm with isn't as attractive as the girl i'm friends with, i still wouldn't cheat on her...i could definately be friends with a girl i find attractive...if she was with someone, i'd respect that...if i knew she didn't like me that way, i'm sure i'd get the hint and do my best not to make any moves or something and just be friends with her...i may be babbling but i think its very possible...with the sex thing, i don't think i could do like a one night stand or something like that...i'd have to know the other person would want to be with me and i'd want to be with her...that its more than just sex...and, not that you wanna know, but thats basically how i got with candice...at first it was like she just wanted sex with me and i wouldn't do it and i made sure that she wanted to be with me and i wanted to be with her...then we went out and i'm sure you get the rest...i really don't like how girls say that all guys want is sex...i mean yeah, sex is fantastic, but thats not everything that i want...i'd want a relationship and i'd want to make sure that theres feelings between us
» Kollin6618 on 2006-02-13 01:59:15

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