I've come to realize.
Wednesday. 5.7.08 8:59 am
That I don't really like my dad's side of the family all that much.
My uncle is a dick-head all the time already, so that's a negative already. My dad's girlfriend is nice most of the time, but blamed me for something that was an accident then kept trying to squeeze apology after apology out of me after I had already apologized like, 15 times and MEANT IT. My grandma has been sour towards me lately, which I don't like. My dad is usually the one I can't put up with because of drinking habits and such, but right now he is my favorite.
An incident happened the other day at my dad's golf tournament where I needed to use my dad's girlfriends purse for a minute. Well, I forgot to give it back, and my dad and I were already half way across the golf course when I realized I still had it. I didn't know it had her cigarettes and money in it, it was a complete accident. (I'm going to call my dad's girlfriend JM to make typing easier) Well, JM and my uncle waited around apparently for an hour and a half waiting for us to return. What they didn't know is that the last half hour we were looking for them, too. We finally found them, JM came up to me, snatched the purse violently from my hands (yes, violently, and I am not over exaggerating) and said "You know that was really inconsiderate of you." Then she just walked away with my uncle. While they were walking away my uncle flipped me and my dad off, which REALLY pissed me off.
I know I wasn't thinking when I forgot to return the purse. But seriously, why wouldn't my uncle have money on him in the first place? SERIOUSLY. A 49-year-old man going to a golf tournament with no money? BULLSHIT. But what made me mad the most was that it was completely my fault, and JM and my uncle knew that too, but they had the fucking nerve to blame my dad. I'm sure he's done stupid things that were meant to be blamed for, but he didn't do anything. It was my fault, I took the purse, I forgot to return it, I am sorry.
And THEN, while they're getting all mad, they're making a scene in front of some of my dad's coworkers. It's none of their business, so they don't need to witness it. My uncle was only waiting with JM, so he needs to keep his nose on his fucking face and out of other people's business. The whole situation was between me and JM, but they decided to involve my dad, his coworkers and my uncle.
Bah, I'm done ranting. I just got mad because my dad does some stupid stuff sometimes, but when he is not in the wrong, LEAVE HIM ALONE.
Oh tell me about it, I loath most of my relatives who are from my dad's side of the family. they are people who only create trouble for my father, financially and emotionally, and they act all gung ho about it.
» Nuttz on 2008-05-07 10:03:15
and by gung ho I meant they act as if they are all superior than my father and my family, like they money they are spending are not from my father, which in fact it is.
» Nuttz on 2008-05-07 10:05:49
...and it's gone.
Too bad. People can be real jerks, but it's always a surprise when it happens to you...
» middaymoon on 2008-05-07 08:36:26
So I guess "family love" isn't really in the picture here? (Not like I ever believed in it :P)
You have a reason to dislike them, at least. I can't stand my mom's side of the family for reasons I'm not quite sure of right now.
» randomjunk on 2008-05-07 09:00:56
i agree! why cant families be more like those in stories because we know that happily ever after rarely comes this way anymore. at least a normal family life would be good huh?
» Nuttz on 2008-05-08 11:07:52
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