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Facebook Purgatory.
Saturday. 9.2.06 6:45 pm
I'm an awful person.

Why?

I believe in Facebook Purgatory.

What's Facebook Purgatory, you ask?

Ok. You know how there are those people who follow the "Oh, I've met you once, and I don't know you, let's be friends on Facebook!" train of thought?

They use it as a "See who I've met," and not a "See who I know, have spent time with, and don't have anything particularly awful to say about."

I prefer to use Facebook for "Hey, I know you, I think you're cool, we have accounts on this site, let's be friends" purposes. This means that if I've met you once, and don't know you, or didn't pick up a good impression from the first time I met you, I'm probably not going to add you as a friend. Since I feel bad for "deny"ing people I don't properly know my friendship, they get to stay in Facebook Purgatory.

There are exceptions. I've never met maybe two or three of my "friends," but I've communicated with them enough to consider them friends.

Granted, Facebook doesn't tell the person who asks to be your friend if/when you deny them, so I figure the worst that could happen is that they think I hate them or something.

Oh well.
4 Comments.


Yup
Yea, nutang is awesome. Thanks for saying that you liked me layout. :)

I've never used Facebook. In fact, I haven't heard about it until yesturday on Nutang's forums. Is it like myspace?
» thisdisease on 2006-09-02 09:08:41

Facebook
That's good then. A lot safer. I used to have a friend who was killed and found in a river that used myspace. They say that the person who kidnapped her found her through myspace.
» thisdisease on 2006-09-02 09:12:00

long comment ahoy! XD
hahahahahahahahaha i must be really, really stupid, because until i read through your entry three times, i thought facebook purgatory was something like heaven or hell, then i realised it was some kind of website ^^;;

haha as you can tell from my previous idiocy that ive never used facebook, nor have i heard of it until now (well i might have received a hunkabunch of spam from it and deleted it all from my inbox and my memory but yeah...) although i understand the "friends" stuff...

i use myspace, and i generally dont add them unless i *know* who they are... i think i've got quite a few friends requests just sitting there cos i'm ignoring them. unless they tell me who they are (because i tend to only add people i know from rl or those who i consider friends online), i will continue to ignore them =3

eh i'm the kind who normally cant reject friend requests, but if its something like myspace which i trust about as much as i trust a starving lion not to eat me, i will not reject or accept and just let it sit there unless a friend of mine comes to me and goes "hey, i added you on myspace! add me back!" =3

well, if facebook doesnt tell you who wants to add you, you could always put up a message on msn/aim or something asking who is it who added you, and if it's nobody you know and no one says "hey, i added you on facebook, will you accept my friend thing" you might want to ignore it cos it is quite dangerous to add random people o_o;;

L8r,

—×Kuri×—
» Kuri on 2006-09-03 07:24:35

I do that over at crappy Myspace, when people add me just because we live in the same city.

Like wow...we have nearness, let me friend you.

Also, I so want to see that pic of you with the nice Sephiroth. As for the mean one, well...at least he wasn't like the real Sephiroth with the death stabbity thing that he do.
» Noacat on 2006-09-04 01:33:19

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