One of the most terrible lunches i ever had in my lifetime. Here's how it went:

I had nowhere to go and i decided that i would sit beside my newfound "friends"...same race...so more comfy atmosphere, right? So there i was, going towards them with my fries in hand. And said "Hi! Ok lang tumabi sa inyo?" Hi! Can i sit with you? And yes, they welcomed me and said hi..and we talked and i was getting comfy at that time. And then 2 other people came and joined us...

And then out of the blue, this person said "Oi...tinanong pala ni ******(another new person) if official members na ba raw sila ng ********(group name)?" Hei, ***** asked if they were official members of our group?"

And this person-with-the-nega-vibes' face was all like contorted and she said, "No! No way! Our group's too big already!"

_{This person with the nega vibes: When we were introduced to their group, this person was the person i had been sensing negative vibrations from. I mean, when i met her, all i could feel was You're not welcome.}

And I felt like i could choke at that moment. I wished i could melt and all. I mean, my sis and i were introduced to them and we're new too... (By the way, my sis wasn't with me. So worse.) Not that we're so desperate to be "officially" part of their group, but did she have to be so frigging violent about it? (Ok, not violent...but Overacting...)? I mean, that was just MEAN. I'm new too. Does she have to underline the fact that she doesn't want other people joining their group? In front of me. Talk about tactless.

Yes. Now i do know that some (if she felt that way, why not the others?) don't want us to be part of their group. And fine, i don't wanna push myself to peple who don't even want my presence. All i want is friendship. And just some respect. That was just downright selfish and insensitive.

I don't know if i can trust people here anymore. Sometimes, people are such good actors/actresses. This lunch just shocked me. And it hurt. Really.

Categories: barkada [t], friends [t], shit friends [t]

aww
i wish i had some insight to give you...but i guess there always be ignorant, tactless, hurtful people in the world. *zenhugs*
» invisibleinkling on 2006-09-27 03:03:57

wtf? I don't know if I could trust people like that. What if they're saying things like that behind your back? I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but they still seem really mean.
» hikarixgaki on 2006-09-27 05:18:16

Chances are that it's only that one person. If you still feel uncomfortable, I'd say leave, but you might want to see what the rest of the group thinks before you do anything.
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