OK guys are soooo confusing.
Last night, I was in a club with friends and friends' friends. I kind of grew out of this scene after some bad experiences but hey, where the party's at...
Anyway, long story short: I was dancing the whole night with this guy; everything seemed cool between us; he bought me drinks, he wasn't perverted touchy-feely like most of the clubrats, I wasn't even trying to monopolize him or anything, like I would leave him and see if he actually wanted to dance with me and yea he initiated stuff. We actually had decent conversations in between the dancing and at one point, we did kiss.
So here's the confusing part: When the other people were telling him to leave, he left with them too. No conversation enders, no exchange of numbers, just a quick hug with a "nice meeting you". Which left me all like, what the fuck?
I mean, this is typical (expected) club behaviour but what I don't get is why the build-up? Why buy me drinks? Why stay with me? I feel cheated out of the whole thing since I (as my friend put it) "invested" in staying with him the whole night. Basically, I felt like my efforts were wasted when I could've looked for other people who'd be more appreciative in the end. I mean, I thought he was being appreciative but that 180 turn in the end caught me off guard. I'm not looking for a one-night-stand like some loose girl. I just don't get it. Forget cellphone numbers; a simple "we should hang out again" would've justified his actions and satisfied me.
It's not like I "like" this person. I just met him for crying out loud. It's more of a pride thing. I get it if you're just not into me but why lead me on? So what's the deal with that? Guys?

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