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Someones_Muse
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Wednesday. 2.16.11 1:07 am
No, I don't mean "the One." Quite the opposite. I mean the one person whose approval you crave and can't seem to earn. Do you have one of these?

We'll call mine "A." She and I were in the same language training group (with three others). She was the second American I'd met in town, and the first to actually have a conversation with me. She showed me around, introduced me to people, and helped me around the language barrier. She was so nice, and I thought we were going to be friends. Then came the group project.

I'm not going to try and explain who did what to whom first, who was right or wrong, because I'm biased, and I can't sort half of it out anyway. The project was executed very successfully, but at the expense of my feelings and trust. Over a year later, I bristle if I hear a non-negative comment about her, mostly because of what I'm about to explain.

I want to be in her good graces. I want to move on and repair the relationship because we have a lot of friends in common, and cross paths fairly often. We're involved in each others' projects, and have developed a dynamic that from the outside looks very productive. However, she has shut me out.

Her small-town Midwest smile and tone are bright, but her words are thorns, if you're listening. She cuts conversations short and doesn't return my calls. I can usually analyze what makes a person feel good about themselves, but she is unfathomable. I cannot change her mind about me.

Ok, enough sour grapes. I probably just need to get over it, right? Well, I'd love to learn from your experiences.
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I am something of an anxious person, so I tend to feel this way about lots of people who probably aren't even purposely doing anything.

If you think she'd be willing to talk to you about it, you could always pull her aside and say "look, if I've offended you in some way, I'm sorry, and I'd really like for us to be friends." Pretty straightforward, and I don't think it's passive aggressive in any way... If she didn't react to that well, or at least in a polite manner, you're probably better off ignoring her.
» randomjunk on 2011-02-16 02:16:08

re: online
At the middle school age I can believe that the relationship couldn't work, mostly because no relationships can work at that age :P
But idk lol
» hiddenagenda on 2011-02-16 11:28:59

erm oops
pretend I didn't comment on that account >.> totally not me
» AmbyrJayde on 2011-02-16 06:32:05

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