first off i would like to say that i want to be married ONCE


in our time we see alot of divorced parents and kids with fighting parents. I absolutly do not want that. if i am going to have children with someone when i am older i will most definetly make sure that our marriage is established and has a strong foundation. Kids deserve parents like that and nothing less.

And i understand there are many reasons for divorce. But i also believe that the majority of them are from ppl who rush into things and then realize that they never did love their partner.


lol i will not rush into a marriage. if im going to spend the rest of my life with him why cant i first take the time to make sure hes the right one?



I dont wanna take marriage lightly. It shouldnt be taken lightly.




ok on another note i need to go to bed lolz


cant believe the weekend is over already... i hope i didnt have any homework /sighs



night!! <3

Apparently if you're in your thirties the "good" decision is to marry someone who's financially stable, which sounds awful to me.

So yeah, I agree with you about the being married once thing. Well, unless the first one dies and you find someone absolutely amazing....
» randomjunk on 2008-09-01 11:13:45

That sort of thing does worry me slightly. Divorce, that is. I think I'll try living with the person before I do marry. Also, the ability for the couple to be able to discuss conflicts and tensions between each other. All those things stem from trust really. Trust that you can talk about a possible flaw the other has without fear of them overreacting.
» yourcupoftea on 2008-09-01 11:14:34

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