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I always found that hrm... what worked for me?

I found some reason to stay away from the person until I stopped feeling whatever. I'd find one little thing and nitpick it. I'd look for all of the negative qualities to kill the crazy people-worship-thing...
» ikimashokie on 2008-02-11 05:35:09

Moving on
It took me 2 years to get over someone and I had to move away just to do it. And I realized that I messed up in moving away because there was someone else who cared but now, just like I did, he moved on.
» Art4TheHomeless on 2008-02-11 08:23:47

kuri-dear
I've found that emotions are fickle. The anguish and longing will go away. Iki's right; absence won't make the heart grow fonder--it'll give you the result you want. Stay away, stay occupied, HAVE FUN, and then it'll be he-who? What's-his-face-I-don't-remember-his-name-so-come-again? Oh, right...I used to like him. ;)
» Silver-dot- on 2008-02-11 09:42:58

hmm... let me just give u a hug and i would lend u my ears and eyes.
» renaye on 2008-02-12 08:19:41

Only god knows the true answer to that. Each person's heart works differently so different methods are used to nurse a broken heart. Denial never works, that's all I know, they sometimes make you fall deeper in that bottomless pit of depair.

I never had my heart broken before so I can't tell you. Maybe you should get over the things that attracts you to him, or find another guy. Tho regardless of your decision, like renaye, I'll be there to be your shoulder to cry on.

By the way, I hope Valentine's day isn't getting to you.
» Nuttz on 2008-02-12 08:40:59

awww thank you all ♥ yeah... i'm just... gna try my best to distance myself from him and try get over him. thing is, i DON'T KNOW why i like him!!! he's totally not my type, personality-wise... it's so distressing! =_=;; so i'm kinda focusing on that aspect and trying to get over him as much as possible... +_+

@nuttz, nahhh v-day never means much to me ^_^

ty everyone for all your support! ♥

...wait... i mean... er... who said the person who needs to nurse a broken heart in my entry was me??? =O ...it's er... a friend of mine. yeah... that's it... x_x;;

actually my heart isn't broken :) it just hurt a lot tho...
xxx
» Kuri on 2008-02-12 04:17:36

Time
time cures all... very cliche but almost undeniably true...

No hard and fast rule for getting over hurt in our lives, i was there at a point in time and there's always this lingering 'pain' from time to time.

But that being said, i found that having friends and loved ones around really makes it a lot better. Go out more :)
» Koban on 2008-02-13 09:16:15

*GLOMP*

you get a friend on the phone and they cheer you up :P

or...that person phones you multiple times in a stalkerish manner and tries to distract you in a rather sad manner....�.�"...that was also..uh..a friend of mine..*runs away*

im glad you feel better now though :D (*mentally hugs ani*)
» EmmaBanana on 2008-02-13 12:55:54

... I thought Ani was your best friend and not you... So confused after emma's post.

If there is no straight rejection then getting over someone takes longer. In fact you may never get over that person. It takes real rejection, not one that you know might or will happen, to let the healing truely begin. I hope your friend can move on since while she's holding onto her feelings for someone who shows no interest in her she might be missing out on the person she's supposed to be with.
» (98.224.102.110) on 2008-02-15 09:41:55

heh heh... sorry about the confusion... ^^;; the person in my entry wasn't about Ani... =3 Emma was giving a comment after me telling her the 'friend' in my entry feels a LOT better... :)

thank you for the advice... (^_^)v luckily the person is now over the one they like... :D turns out the one they like did actually like them back, but now has a gf who they just met a week ago... it's... complicated ^^;; but thanks very much! :D

who... are you, btw? =3
xxx
» Kuri on 2008-02-15 12:36:40

It's me, I didn't realize I wasn't logged in... I'm always logged in! XD
» Katrina on 2008-02-18 10:21:03

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