My sister had not called me in awhile and it was two days before she was to leave for Oahu. She finally called me and this was the conversation:

Me: "So, are you ready to go home and start your new job?"

Her: "Oh yeah, I haven't talk to you in a while huh?"

Me: (furious inside because this statement means that she has changed her mind)

Her: I decided not to go.

Me: Huh? What did you do about the job?

Her: I told them that I would not be taking it and that I am going to stay here instead.

Me: After all of that, I cant believe that you are choosing to stay. (I was furious and angry. I have put so much energy, time and worry into this and she chooses to stay with him?? This is your CLASSIC battered wife syndrome!!) Aside from being upset for my own convienience, she is insisting on staying in an abusive relationship. She is so blind to see what is going on. I cant do anything else to help her. I told her, "if things go bad, dont call me because I am going to tell you I TOLD YOU SO!!"

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thanks for the compliment. ^__^;;

love makes people stupid and blind... your sister will get the message soon... people do eventually see the situation and leave...
» cynnielee on 2006-12-19 03:23:00

You know...
...I've never understood how someone could be in a relationship like that and still love the other person. It just doesn't make any sense at all....
» The-Muffin-Man on 2006-12-19 05:21:15

my sister's boyfriend is becoming less reliable, and its starting to piss me off that she's not really doing anything about it. Its not abusive though, so that's good. I hope you're sister doesn't make any major mistakes or gets hurt any further. My best wishes to you and her.
» LostSoul13 on 2006-12-20 01:09:00

I want to know more! What's happened since then and what happened before then!

And in response to your comment; more than you'll ever know...
» elessar257 on 2006-12-21 12:12:30

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