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On Line Love
Tuesday. 5.12.09 4:47 am
I guess when it comes to on line, it's not that I necessarily think that people are just outright lying about themselves. It seems that people tend to talk about the things that they want other people to see in them and ultimately it's what they truly want to see in themselves. So, they tend to talk about all the positive aspects that they have to offer and simply overlook the negative ones. Not because they do it intentionally, but because it's things that they just don't see. They may talk about how caring they can be and totally forget to mention that they will go apeshit if you squeeze the toothpaste from the middle instead of rolling it up from the bottom. They might tell you that they are pretty organized in thier lives, but fail to go as far as saying that they are so neat that every single can in the cupboard has to have the labels facing forward and are aligned nice and perfect or they are going to have a major meltdown over it. So, these are the things that I tend to look for in people before I'm willing to take that step into the so called "greener pastures" on the other side. I think it's pretty safe to say that everyone is caring, loving, giving and looking for forever. I also think it's very unanimous that everyone wants to be that rock, that security in the night, or that safety that another person can come running to when the storms in thier lives get too great to handle alone. As a general thought, I think we all want to be those things to someone. But, the realities of life show that not everyone can be those things and only simply give the illusion of that to who they meet. So, in meeting people, I look for the simpler answers. The ones that are going to make a difference in day to day living that people don't seem to ask when they are getting to know one another. When other people are asking "what do you do for fun?", "what are your dreams?", "what do you look for in a person?", I'm thinking that answers are pretty much that same across the board. We look for someone to love that is going to love us back. We look for someone that is going to be faithful, considerate, understanding and honest. We do the things that make us happy and want to share those things with a partner that can appreciate who we are as much as we appreciate them. It's pretty universal that we all long for the same things. So, I need to know the simple things. What pet peeves do you have? Are you going to freak out because the toilet paper is rolling off the bottom instead of the top? Are you someone that gets mad if you ask me to do something and I don't jump up and do it the very second you tell me too? Are you clingy? Are you someone that wants to sleep on the couch instead of coming to bed when you are angry? Are you someone that will jump in the car and drive off for hours on end because something didn't go your way? Are you a jealous person that is going to get upset if someone comes up and gives a flirtatious compliment to me? Is it going to bother you if I go out with "the girls" at night even though you didn't want to go and had hoped that I would stay home with you instead? Are you someone that claims to be sexual and loving who down the road will get bored and not feel like having sex anymore because you have gotten so comfortable in the relationship that you don't think it's necessary? How often do you think sex should happen in a healthy relationship? I can go on and on and on with the questions. I'm not looking for the worldly answers of wonderful nights of walking in the sunrise and glorious evenings of dancing til dawn. I want to know what happens in the morning when you haven't had enough sleep and you have to go to work and the pipe in the kitchen just bursted spilling water all over the kitchen floor. Are you going to get moody at me and start using me as a punching bag for your bad day? These are the things, to me, that make or break a relationship. You can love someone with everything you have, but I have learned a long time ago that love isn't enough if you are the type of person that will just throw your hands up in the air and want to leave everytime things get a little tough in life and it's not lined up perfectly down the road to forever.
So, when I say that I am simple in my life, I truly am. I'm not looking for the expensive dinners in beautiful resteraunts when a burger and fries sounds just fine to me. I'm not looking for fancy cars and tons of money that make me "appear" better than I am to the neighbors and rest of the world. I just want to be able to pay my bills, live my life and have some money left over to put in the bank to retire on. And, yes, I would like someone to share that with. Someone that isn't going to have my checkbook crawling miserably on the floor looking for a hiding place. Someone that will give to me as much as I give to them..financially, emotionally, mentally and willingly without spats and arguments that wind up in "you do this and I do that". I just want a life. A good life. One that I can't wait to tell my friends about. One that has pictures all over the walls of a life well spent that had nothing to do with day after day sitting in front of the tv and knowing the tv guide by heart.

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