OMG! this is seriously crazy! Beyond my imagination. Well wht happened was like i met this guy bout 5 months back when i was in this competition. So this competition was held in another state, so me n my team mates took a long bus ride down for the event. So when we were headin to our designated check in place, i met this guy on the bus, headin to the same place as me n my team mates so we introduced ourselves and chat till we got to our stop. So we waited for the check in time at 2 pm , we were there like an hour or two earlier so we sat at the lobby area and waited and we talked more.
My team mates were teasin me that he's flirtin wth me and so on, n as usual i didnt bother. Not that i'm there to look for a relationship. i did notice the flirtatious side and all the extra complimentary remarks and nice treatment comin from him but i didnt think its gonna last long, thought he was jst being his flirtatious self.. so anyway, we exchanged numbers after the competition was over. so a few months later i text wishin him a happy new year (its a festive occassion for him) and a few flirtatious replies but i didnt bother much bout it till bout 10 minutes back when my mobile rang.
i was surprised to see his name appeared on my screen, so i picked up and the whole conversation was jst so weird. well first he started askin me how come i'm still awake at this hour n that i should get some good rest and then he continued on sayin that he has got somethin to ask, so i said ok, ask away n then he kinda freaked me out in a way, well his voice is somewht rather low as i remembered them, hope he wasn't tryin to seduce me with his voice, anyway, he told me that he couldn't stop thinking bout me since we parted from the competition and that he wants me to be his girlfriend. i was like ewww... well i like him as a friend n not more than that n him callin at this hour n tellin me things like this isnt romantic n isnt gonna help in gettin both of us into a relationship. so when he popped the question i was like NO.. without thinkin twice and then wht's unbelievable was that he asked me whether can he kiss me or vice versa! HELL no!!
then again he asked whether is there by any chance we can hook up n this time i kinda put on a really serious intonation n told him no n i supposed he was like disappointed he hung up without sayin goodbye. i guess that's the end of the friendship. bet this time around my friends' who knew bout this incident is gonna tell me to stop being so friendly to stranger i dont know..besides i dont think being friendly's a crime
wow. that guy is much freakier than the guys that have called me up and such. and u should be happy that the friendship with this kind of guy is finished and over on the spot... this kind of friendship is not really worth it ... i have experienced this so many times and don't worry this kind of guys will forget u easily....
and secondly yes i do agree with u that being friendly is not a crime. i was being friendly to strangers and these strangers especially guys who mistook my body language for something else and kept on disturbing me for some time ... and my friends said it served me right. it's preposterous. what am i supposed to do when all these guys are my potential company's client?!
back to the debate of wearing mini skirt and got raped.
» renaye on 2008-12-08 06:30:29
This guy is freaky. I don't think being friendly towards strangers is a big deal though when things get creepy, it sucks!
» Nuttz on 2008-12-08 08:23:52
yikes.. i had a similar freaky experience too.
and the sorbets were great actually despite my usual not liking them very much
» merrick on 2008-12-08 09:28:56
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