i was doin some readin online last night and i came across this article on "What makes and ideal woman?" and that got me thinking bout the conversations i had with my best friend, on wht's our definition of the word "Ideal". Both of us being some sort of idealist made things worse cuz we tend to state the most ideal case of everythin, from food presentation to the perfect dream date. i'm sure most of us have got some idea or even a checklist on their ideal soulmate, but is ideal something they had really want in their life? to me that question made me think bout the theory i learnt in Human Resource Economics class, does the person fit the job or the job fit the person? its like yes, u would want n love to have the ideal person in life but are u tryin to look for someone that fits the checklist or someone that gives you the checklist?

after readin the article i do agree with some views on wht's ideal n wht is meant for u. as for me, the ideal person is jst a dream, a fantasy but in reality, kid us not, is it even possible to get someone that fits the bill? honestly i dont think so. its the compatibility that will outbeat "ideal" at the end of the day. i believe compatibility will go a long way. cuz wht's the use of havin someone ideal in ur life (that fits the checklist) but you're not happy or contended cuz yes, s/he the ideal one, but in terms of compatibility/chemistry, s/he doesnt have it. will one be happy with that? even if the answer is yes, but for how long can that last?

Mr Perfect is never Mr Right.
However, Mr Right is Mr Perfect. (Joanna KD)

mr right is mr perfect? i'm very scared of that sentence. what is mr right? i think still there's a checklist but that's just an unconscious list. i don't even think mr right even exist.
» renaye on 2008-10-04 10:22:19

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