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ruiyan | Is flirting cheating? - Posted on 2008-11-14 03:50:55
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Who believes that flirting is cheating? I personally believe its unfaithful, but is it really cheating? What is considered cheating?

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ruiyan | Untitled - Posted on 2008-11-18 05:21:32
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i think its true that people do subconsciously flirt... i mean isn't it all just part of being human? so i generally just dont talk to guys cos it always get messy.. then you have fights like... 'but i don't go that far etc etc' and your partner is like 'but i dont do this and that either'

merrick | Untitled - Posted on 2008-11-20 01:03:58
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but flirting is fun~

middaymoon | Untitled - Posted on 2008-11-20 17:46:43
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I don't think it's cheating, but it CAN be dangerous. It can lead to cheating.

In general, if you find yourself asking "How far can I go with this without going to far?" you should just not. It's like the kid waving his finger in your face and shouting "Not touching you!" Eventually you think it's OK, and start doing more and more, and then you realize that you've really cheated. And then you're stuck.

Like Zanzibar said, a slippery slope.

yourcupoftea | Untitled - Posted on 2008-11-22 18:17:57
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Flirting to me seems fine so long as you acknowledge the limitation to it. Should it develop beyond mere flirting then it could be considered cheating. Perhaps it is a slippery slope, but knowing the limits is more like a rope. :D It's not just avoiding flirting all together (if you find it enjoyable) it's continuing to keep the limit constant, despite the temptation.

Also, I guess cheating could be engaging in an act with another person that your partner would disagree with. Maybe people have different thoughts on what cheating is.

dont-see | Untitled - Posted on 2008-11-23 15:09:44
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I don't think it's cheating. People need compliments sometimes and a boost of confidence... if you go beyond flirting then it's cheating.
Then again, what is flirting? Some people may think playful touching is flirting or kissing as flirting... so where do you draw the line on what's okay or not; the degree of flirting?
Nay yay?

randomjunk | Untitled - Posted on 2008-11-23 16:13:58
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Eh, I dunno what flirting is. Hence my unspecific previous answer. :P

middaymoon | Untitled - Posted on 2008-11-23 18:00:52
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I say flirting is doing things just to attract the attention of someone you're attracted to. Anything trying to be near or connect with that person. Usually subconscious on my part. :P Teasing, tickling, making up excuses to talk to them, etc.

randomjunk | Untitled - Posted on 2008-11-24 17:34:38
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Then if someone is a flirt, does that mean they find a lot of people attractive?

middaymoon | Untitled - Posted on 2008-11-24 22:13:05
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Usually calling someone a flirt just means that their flirtations are innocent, they lead people on, etc.

CPKviperpheonix | Untitled - Posted on 2008-11-25 19:41:28
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a flirt can indeed find a lot of people attractive, and a lot of times, if you're trying to get to know people that you are attracted to, or if you have an connection with that person (whether its a guy-girl attraction, a guy-guy or a girl-girl attraction) then it may happen unintentionally relatively easily, or someone might perceive something as being a flirt that someone else wouldn't even think to consider flirting.

Its different with each person and situation, i suppose

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