Thursday

apart fr gg to some interviews which was so last min (!!), i met his frens in de evening..yup, tho my ex bf n i din end up togeda (obvious huh? haha), i made v nice gd frens fr him. so ya..supposedly was to meet up wif Jon (only), but i din noe he called de rest also! LOL... and wen i commented "eh u bluff me, nv tel me de rest also coming", Jon replied " aiyo..u wan to one-to-one date wif me rite?" (faint) and de rest (Dennis & Novem) kept jokingly sae i was so bo xim..dun wan dem to come along. *faint faint* nex time i better shut my mouth! haha~

we settled dinner @ Wisma's CoffeeClub. woo~ long time since i been there. =)prolly its been long since we met up..so there was many stuff to tok bout.. sat until my back hurt! LOL. we chatted about everythg.. work.. r/s.. frens.. and of cuz him. LOL...he became de main topic! wahahaha~

guess partly cos i told dem bout him calling me back again.. and all their reponse was.. "why u nv answer?! muz ask how he is doin n make him jealous of u ma!" OMG faint~ one by one.. they told me their opinion and strategies to counter dem. -.-||| u wouldnt believe de things dey sae n stuff dey ask me to do lo! de frenship between dem n him has soured too, i noe. and well, he blames me for tt, i dun care anymore. u cant even secure ur frenship wif ur buddies, den u blame me for it! siao ah~

den dey started askin me things tt happen like 1, 2 yrs back.. bout certain events. whether tis is true..tt is true.. den dey realise, he told dem many many lies! which apparently dey gave him de benefit of de doubt at first la.. but wen dey questioned me, it appeared to b diff fr wad he said..so ya, dey were utterly disappointed. well, same here. my heart was smashed long time ago.

after which dey began gossiping bout his new gal. LOL~ so many comments.. "ah lian la.." , "look so old la.." etc etc.. i rem wad i felt wen i first saw her pic.. i actually tout she was quite swt n pretty. but stil, she was a 3rd party in my past r/s. hah. other guy frens i had, commented on how bad my taste was. haha~ prolly gal see gal is different fr a guy seeing a gal lo..

anyway, den dey mentioned bout him carrying branded wallet, key pouch, pen etc now.. ha, tis fact, i knew long time ago.. de gal bought it for his bdae last yr (i knew fr his sis)! dey din noe tt i knew..so quite shock wen i told dem hu is it fr..LOL~ guess wad dey replied? "haha not surprising, i knew it! xxx wun spend so much $$ on branded stuff one! he gets his ger to buy it for him one! he is so giam wif his cash lo!" *faint and double sigh*

ha.. dey even taught me to get bk wad he owed me..so ask me to cheat him of his $$ (by tellin him to invest in so and so..since he so money-face). den we share share...FAINT RITE! haha~ i luff till stomach pain. LOL. of cuz i wun tink of doin tt.. im scared of karma lo! heh heh.. i learnt buddhist studies b4 one! hehe..

dey sae, prolly now karma acted on him? lol. whether dey're stil togeda i dunno.. but well.. if he can do such thg to me.. i dun tink tt ger wil b so different? ha, no idea! lol.

glad they're doin very good rite now.. Jon and Dennis are workin n studyin part time at SIM.. so hardworkin hor? very xian mu dem lo! one more yr till dey grad! wooh~ both of dem are like older brothers to me.. where studies r concerned, i normally consult dem for their advice. heh.. and funnily, dey consult me bout their love probs! lol.. :p

Novem is studying a private deg.. not too sure how long is it tho. one thg i noe, she has a very devoted husband-to-be (which is Jon!). dey were poly mates.. and Jon has always been treating her superbly well wifout fail. jus tt i dun see tt coming fr de gal's side.. hopefully, she'll realise one dae tt she reali has a wondeful bf by her side hu care for her 24/7? he reali can do anythg for her, n it reali impress me. =) i hope i'll hear de wedding bells soon! hee~

dey asked me bout dearie.. wad he's doin now, how i knew him etc.. and dey told me in unison " aiyoh.. cant stand u ah.. ur smile is so different fr last time! now i noe, gals hu are in love always smile so sweetly!" (LOL... whether it was jus a flattery or true comment..im happy enuf. gee. cos im truely happy wif dearie. =p)

it was a fun nite out wif dem. *smiles* =) =) =)

Friday

i was at home, wif mummy. startin on my household chores again..lol... its a gd exercise actually! sweepin de floor.. den washin de clothes..den hanging.. den folding.. oh ya, n i finally packed my room! hehe.

dearie had his 16km route march thingy or sth. fall ill after tt, so din get to tok to him much tt nite. *hugs hugs*

Saturday

it was my monthly Saturday off, so had no work. met dearie at Pasir Ris wif his mummy. aiyo, cant stand it, so many greens can! lol... so qiao, saw nicholas in de car wif his parents! hee.

dearie's mum drove us to somewhere-near-his-place for lunchie. yum yum, food was good. =) *greedy me* suddenly she asked me how big my dad's side was.. cos she knew dearie was going to my granny's bdae. ha.. i told her a lot ah.. cos my grandpa had 5 wives! lol.. she immd wen "wow, so havoc!" wahaha~

after lunch, wen bk to dearie's plc for him to settle dwn, pack his stuff etc while i took a nap. *oink oink* we left ard 4 i tink.. headed to Parkway first. dearie bought his goodies goodies fr Giant, den i checked out de mooncakes @ Bengawan. couldnt decide wad flavour to buy/mix wif.. end up, dearie bought 2 boxes.. and he wouldnt allow me to pay. sigh~ thanks dear. *hugs* .. i sigh cos.. he isnt earning much! or shld i sae, he isnt earning at all..his NS allowance isnt much! so i rather i pay la. =)

drove bk to my plc ard 6 to pick my parents n brother up. to go to my granny's plc! hee.. its her 80th bdae. Happie Birthday Ahma! =) it was a gr8 nite overall.. seeing my cousins so hyper again as usual. lol..

some of the early birds, my parents, my aunty, and my half-granny,hee:


thats my uncle wif his new wife (sigh):


a grp pic fr left to right (my gu-gu & husband, my daddy n mummy, my sis n bf, my brother, dearie, me, and my dearest cousin, Nicole):




the grannys:


now..its brighter, wif flash!


the workin adults:


tis pic was forced to tk. lol.. my 2 cute cousins.. Marcus and Joseph. see, he finished de whole bowl of bobo-cha cha! LOL..


wooh~ the yummy yummy cake! wow, 80 is like 4 times my age! =)


my granny is on de left. de one on de right is her twin sister. hee, so sweet celebrating togeda! *smiles*


YAY~ blow candles! hee..


the grandchildren:


wa lau~ its too squeezy! lol.


the daughter-in-laws plus 2 gals, gee:


i tink my granny's pretty xin fu? children all married wif a few kids, so she has quite a number of grandchildren? and all doin quite well.. SMILES~

hope u enjoyed urself dear. dun cor me "ah mei" hor! lol.. apparently, he heard my aunt & uncle calling me "ah mei" ma.. den he said tts my new name he's calling me. grr~ well.. "ah mei" has been my name ... cos i also dunno why! haha~

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Romantic Compatibility
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Aquarius & Pisces

When Aquarius and Pisces join together in a love match, there is much compassion and creation. These partners are idealistic as individuals as well as they are together. Pisces flows with their dream-like surroundings, and Aquarius is constantly coming up with new inventions and ways of doing things.

This relationship digs deep for the truth of the matter at hand, and both partners are always looking for solutions to problems. They both tend to be introspective. Aquarius can often be quick to judge those who don't share their vision, while Pisces is often too compassionate, even for those who don't necessarily deserve it.

Aquarius and Pisces make very good friends as well as excellent lovers. Problems are rare, but sometimes Aquarius can be too intellectual and aloof for Pisces, and Pisces may at times be too self-sacrificing and gullible for the Aquarian taste. Sometimes different reactions to a situation may cause a cavern between the two; Aquarius is quick to dismiss those who don't agree with their opinions, and Pisces takes on others' issues too quickly. On some occasion, the pair will have conflicts, but these partners can forgive and forget easily.

Aquarius is ruled by the Planets Uranus and Saturn, while Pisces is ruled by Jupiter and Neptune. Uranus focuses on iconoclastic ideas and innovative practices. Saturn gives this relationship the drive to act on these ideas and the ability to organize the details that will animate them.

Jupiter is about philosophy, teaching, and understanding, and Neptune focuses on spirituality, so Pisces likes to truly understand new and exciting things, such as their partner. Whenever Aquarius comes up with a new idea -- as they so often do -- Pisces is eager to understand it on an intuitive level. This duo creates a complementary relationship deep in intellectual and emotional resources.

Aquarius is an Air Sign and Pisces is a Water Sign. This relationship is motivated by thought and feeling, respectively. There is always a lot going on, and this tends to be a very flexible and progressive union. When it's good it's very good, but when it's bad, communication is abysmal. Pisces likes to be where Aquarius's action and intellect stirs, and Aquarius can learn social tolerance and warmth from the demure Pisces. This team works well together.

Although they may disagree, their differences of opinion don't last long. Conflicts may arise because of Pisces's need for emotional support and tenderness, and Aquarius's preference for ideas rather than romance.

Aquarius is a Fixed Sign and Pisces is a Mutable Sign. Aquarius initiates new ideas and changes, and Pisces will accept these as long as they have an assigned role in bettering the relationship. When these partners get together, they won't argue over who gets to take the credit for their achievements. Both Signs are better at starting things than ending them; if Aquarius gets bored with the relationship, Pisces will soon follow the example and want to move on.

What's the best aspect of an Aquarius-Pisces relationship? It's their mutual interest in cultivating knowledge and accepting modern and cosmopolitan ideas. They are well matched in their enthusiasm, energy, and desire for a sincere, open and honest relationship. Their common interests and reciprocal personalities make theirs a compatible relationship.

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how can a guy, who once broke a gal's heart, leaving her jus wif a simple "we shld break up" and de nex thg, he is wif another ger, and now, he calls bk de old ger! yes, im referring to my ex bf, tt bastard. bloody hell~

since de yrs we had togeda meant nth to him, n cld jus b ended wif a break up, fine jolly well go find ur right gal. last June wen u broke my heart, i was left breathless. instead of showing anymore concern, u had to cheat on me, 2-timed me and let my father witness it. HAHA. fool!

wen i wrote my own personal comments n feelins in my blog regarding us, u were so affected by it. WHY? guilty HUH? u saw my father at work, yet pretended tt u dunno him, how rude can u be! even if we arent togeda, u gotta show him some respect stil? after tt u send urself into deep shit by msgning me..tokin to me bout tis big word JUSTICE! siao arh~ u felt tt i was doin injustice to u by writing my opinion here? bullshit~ tis is my blog, n u can close one eye wif it.

de yrs togeda, wenever we break up for the rubbish-reason-u-give (character incompatible), and wks ltr, u cor me for a patch up, i dunno y i was so stupid to willingly agreed to it. after tt, few mths dwn de rd, u tel me u wanna break up again. wtf is tis! u tink its a game n u r de decider? wan to break den break! wan to patch den patch? i hav no time for such games ok!

since last yr wen u finally din ask me for a patch (COS U HAD A NEW GAL), it doesnt mean im stil waiting for u dumbass! yes, i onced had feelins for u. but not anymore! i can nv bring myself to love such a person. an ungrateful person. a person hu nv appreciates wad he has. u let me down. u let my parents down. n not forgetting, my brother. he was utterly disapppointed by u. u even had de cheek to blame me for making u lose my brother as ur fren. WTF LA~ u dun hav tt fu qi ok!

u tel ur fren to tel me tt u feel guilty bout wad u've done to me, but tt doesnt matter to me anymore! gd tt u feel guilty, but too late! i hav a life, and my life doesnt concerns u! not a single bit alrite!

now tt u are constantly disturbing me wif ur repeated calls recently, i am VERY NOT HAPPY wif it. u shld noe ur own limits right now. call urself a guy to call me bk now n pester me? nth better to do? arent u VERY HAPPY & XIN FU wif ur new gf hur hur? pls go entertain the 3rd party whom u refuse to admit! tt v dae since we broke up.. i hav nv forgotten how u treated me. i hate ppl hu lie, yet u can blame it on de fact tt "we quarrel too much" as de reason of de break up, instead of admitting tt u hav found a new gal! u are a guy yet hav no guts to admit mistake! GOSH~

if i ever bump into u on de street one day.. i'll introduce my bf to u as "neh, tis is de bastard i told u last yr. remember his face".

dun ever call me again.

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Saturday
work wen quite smoothly (hee cos Mr Soh is ard, grin) and i managed to finish work by 1pm! hee. *happie* dearie was slpin, thus he only came at 130. -.-" meanwhile, i wen to dapao lunch for daddy and myself! plus dearie's bubble tea, hee. we drove to SGH immd, and erh.. kinda got lost on de wae. LOL! dearie missed one of de exit n we dunno end up where, but managed to find it in de end wif longer time, lol.

so qiao, on de wae to de lift, i bumped into my aunty! hee. dearie's stress level increase, lol. tt aunty of mine is v nice, dun hav to worry dear! =p my cousin as usual.. mistook me for my sis (again). haha. n he always wear his specs like half tilted dwn. lol..i always cor him a scientist!! buahaha.. den wen he saw me, he said "no i dun wan to b scientist.. i am a farmer..." *FAINT* =)

wen up to see my mum after tt. dearie gave her some bird nest+ginseng. so glad, she's feelin so much better than Friday le! at least she cld eat.. can talk more..and best of all, she can walk! *smiles*

the so-called-park at de hospital..


my mummy eating in her big big ward! hee..


we stayed thr til bout 5 b4 we left de hosp. headed to PS after tt, window shopped a lil, had a simple dinner den headed to... Changi Hospital! lol~ hospital here n there...ha. wernie was admitted thr cos of dengue! so we wen dwn to visit him! =) get well soon!

Sunday
poor baby. he slps like there's no tml. lol. again, suppose to wake up for his bball but he overslept. -.-" lucky i called him b4 i left hse to make sure he's awake. otherwise, i dunno how to wake him up. lol. dearie offered to come over n fetch me, so ok lo, hee, i'd more time to prepare. =)

it always rains on Sunday! i dunno why! hmph~ we wanted to go to de Esso at my plc to fill up de car, also purpose was to see if de 'guy' was thr. de one hu had superb gd service, hu attented to us previously. sadly, we din get to see him. hmm.

dearie was hungry (as usual, hehe) so i suggested gg to de market at Old Airport Rd. been craving for market food. hee. and tt plc has v gd reputation. most of de stalls r shown on tv one. =)

on de rd, i saw tis! hee, motorbike racing! wooh~ in de rain somemore! cool! couldnt capture clearly tho. geez.


after de sumptuous breakfast cum lunch, we head home. lucky dearie din slp! LOL~ he was busy searching for gd hp plans. those free incoming kinda plans.. cos.. hp bill v high! LOL.

dearie's mum bought a new fan for him, which is so much better! hee. cos his room's aircon is like..never cold? LOL. now de fan is too cold! muahahha...

drove dwn to Bugis to check out on de plans. everythg is stil pending. lol. dearie wld prolly buy nex wkend. hmm. dinner was at V8 cafe. ooh...long time since we stepped in there! hee. V8 used to b our weekly dinner place. lol..



wen to visit my mummy in de evening again. she's getting much much better. hee. *smiles* dearie stayed for short while b4 he left to book in. =) thanks for sending me thr baby! =p

Monday
work has been a tad better ever since Mr Soh came bk. so no more complains bout me having to stay back. hee. wen to see mummy after work. doctor sae she cld b discharged tml. YAY~

Tuesday
oh man~ Joanne is leaving earlier. sigh~ im like de old bird there liao! ppl hu come ltr than me, all leaving le! sob sob!! *cries* today was considered de last day wif me n her, since i wld b on leave fr Wed to Fri, and tis wk is her last wk. grr~ sadded.

met up wif June after work for dinner @ Cafe Cartel. catch up wif each other. many gossips ard. lol. i learnt bout many new stories fr my colleague, cos she was understudying me for Monday n Tuesday. she's been wif SCB for 5 yrs, so she was tellin me bout de different ppl here. so shocked can. some ppl whom i see, is like v harmless kind, but fr wad i heard, those ppl r actually quite cunning. sigh~ tis's de real cruel world man.

work aside, we started tokin bout r/s. ha.. den i told her bout tis gal whom i detest right now.. since last time, she's been bugging her bf, n accused me for being de 3rd party. siao ah! ur breakup has nth to do wif me lo. plus my guy fren is so chi qing to u.. its ur fu qi man! everyday grumble n grumble! PUI~ she isnt an ugly gal, but her character has aldy made me tink she's ugly. grr~

some r/s are hard to come by. god always play wif ppl. we nv noe which guy is de right one for us. sometimes, we bump into de wrong one, for us to hav a learning experience. despite de hurts we wen thru, definitely we learn n benefit sth fr tt few yrs?

learnt many things fr June along de way. she's been thru some events tt not everyone of us wil get. gd or bad, i hav no sae. but i hope u stay strong gal. look on de bright side. i hope sth wil b worked out for u n ur bf somehow. *smiles* if u nid a listening ear, im always a phone call away ya? *hugs hugs*

gt hm abt 10+.. felt pretty tired le. dearie din wan to hang dwn de fone til i get home safely, so had to sneakily tok togeda. kinda scary sometimes.. dun wan him to get punished also. hmm.

Wednesday
im on leave today til Friday. gd rest for me~ =) had to wake up early today for a DBS interview. gosh~ i tink i jus screw tt interview. sigh~ sucha failure!! tt guy din seem convinced.. and he rarely smiled.. i felt so stressed. sob. i asked regarding de urgency of de job, n he said it wasnt. dey r jus recruiting ppl for de nex quarter headcount. meaning.. i hav to wait for a mth or so for de result i guess. sigh. another gone case interview~

dearie's having his OCS interview today too. gd luck dear!! *hugs* beginning, dearie was quite keen in entering OCS, but i tink after de field camp exp etc.. he din exactly wan tt route anymore. he was hoping more for a sergent position, than officer. prolly its de higher level of stress, and also de increased traning, which he feels he isnt fit for tt. hmm.

last nite, he was being shortlisted by his dunno-who.. thus having de interview today. in any case, wadever vocation u r given, i'll stil b here supporting u dear! =) jiayou wor~

so sad after my gone-case-interview.. i wen to 7-11 to get my fav Slurpy. and my lunchie- prawn noodles. hee. hope it cheers me up a little! :/


no plans ltr; Ro couldnt make it last minute. so guess i'll b a gd gal n stay home tk care of my mummy! *smiles*

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phew! tired~

Short Term memory sets in, lol. past few daes hav been pretty much de same. work n work n jus work. ha. jus counting my number of daes left thr, cant b bothered wif ppl hu wan respect, yet dun show respect to others. =(

finally yest (Thurs), My Soh (a part-time officer) is back! woohoo~ so happy! hee. he's at least better than other officers, so i felt so happy upon his return after his long leave! hehe. =p chqs were pretty much de same yest..but the hardworkin him, checked my corrections way early, like at 3pm! *smiles* usually, tt dumb officer checks at 530, wen its time for me to leave lo! damn~ felt so gr8 to have mr Soh back again, so wonderful, he let Joanne and me off at 5pm yest! hee. *wide smile* damn happy lo. first time leave before 530 ah! hee. we were 2 happy angels! hee.

after work, i wen to mit my father to go to SGH togeda cos mummy was admitted yest. *hugs* so happy to see her smiling even in her ward! she even told me it felt like a chalet. hee. =p we brought her dwn for dinner, n she insisted on havin her favourite pineapple! hee. like baby lidat, we bought for her. =) we catched de Superstar togeda after tt, only til 10pm den we left.. grr, waited for de cab for so long! tired~ June called me while i was in de cab, n so we chatted all de wae til i reached home (lol)..and continously till 1130, LOL. see, we're reallly gals! hehe. hope you're coping fine there gal! *smiles*

Friday's work was like a breeze, tho i find tt tis wk past a lil slow. like so draggy lidat. grr~ happen to chat a little wif Mr Soh today, and heh heh..he knows my father! LOL!! wad a small small world! we were luffing non-stop, i felt so happy! hee. den he started tellin me bout his life story..lol..den he wen "if im nt wrong..i was at xxx bank in 1971, den ur father came in 1972.." wen i told my father tt over dinner, he was so shocked tt he cld stil rem! lol..i tink dey shld jus mit up n catch up wif each other's life man! hehe.

mummy had her operation today. wen to see her after work, gosh~ she looked reali in severe pain. *heartpain* she cld hardly speak, and nt to mention move about. sigh~ guess de stitches r hurting her a lot. no food for her too. jus laying dwn on de bed resting. dunno wen i'll c her put on a smile. *cries* bringing up a child is such a tough job to handle, she's been taking so gd care of us, sometimes we might hav tk our dearest parents for granted. de pain dey wen thru to bring us up, seeing us thru our everyday lives, making sure we're happy n healthy. seeing her in pain, pains my heart too.

i hope u get well soon, love you mummy. *hugs*

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hello! *waves* hee.

tho my Saturday wasn't tat a happy one, my Sunday made up for it! hehe. dearie met his frens for basketball in de morn, so i only met him in de noon. ended up wen i reached his plc, only to find out tt he couldnt wake up! thus, he was stil slpin wen i gt thr, LOL! kinda expected actually, geez. :p waited for him to be fully awake, den we saw tis California Pizza Advertisement on tv, lol, n u expect.. we had tt for lunch! lol. dearie had a sudden crave for tt, so we bought tis Family Combo and sahred togeda wif his mummy. =) so yummy-yummy. hee. esp wif my calamari! love it so much! :p

we watched de replay of Superstar ag=fter tt. by de time we finish eating, it was de results time liao. lol. dearie's mum and i started criticising tis n tt.. tis gal good la..tt guy not gd la..etc..luff til i stomach pain, cos dearie couldnt stand 2 of us. LOL. bleah, dearie dun hav de chance to watch ma, tts y he cant comment. otherwise, he wil join in de conversation also one lo, boo. =p dearie's mum complained how 'mei liang xin' dearie's father was, cos de moment he called home, he looked for de son, n not de wife. hehe.. glad tt he's doin well in New York. dearie's dad was even so thoughtful to consider comin bk for dearie's POP, but dearie told him not to, cos air tix wil b pricey. hmm, quite true ya. =)

after tt, we surfed some webbie as dearie wanted to check out de Police career, as well as new hp models. lol. ha, ever since he experienced field camp, it was a nitemare to him, lol! he aint sure if he wanna sign on, bcos of tt factor liao. muahaha...~

anyway, was suppose to catch a movie, but time did not reali permit. so we headed to Suntec for groceries shopping. hee, i simply love tt. *smiles* dearie had to top up his food, lol. he bought so many stuff tis time, how can his bag fit sia? wahaha~ i bought my shampoo, den we left Carefour! im stil used to using my Pantene shampoo, n Dove conditioner.lol. so troublesome hur? hmm, other brands of shampoo kinda make my hair feel v gao wei, n v oily, it disturbs my work, lol!!

there wasnt much time, thus we quickly drove to Esplanade for quick dinner. it was quite crowded, i din noe thr wld b fireworks tt dae! =(


Monday's work was pretty ok. lucky office, he had many help fr other officers lo. otherwise u wld jus c de cheques piling n piling, like mountain. :/ Tuesday work, time pass pretty fast. *happy* but well, nth unusual, dey couldnt balance again. *faint* but of cuz i left. muahaha~ even had time to chit chat wif Shirley, one of de nice 'mother' there. heh..everyone knows of our tender! lol.. was explaining to her some reasons due to our tender..and she was so shocked to hear our pay, LOL! see, its reali low lo! heard fr Joanne tt, those new ppl hu came in after us, dey offered dem higher! so bad! =(

afternoon, Josephine wanted to switch half days wif me. hee, she's so nice, she wanted to acc her daughter cos tt dae her daughter wld b at home. yup, i gladly switched wif her! feels gd to do sth gd sometimes! *smiles* so yup, i'll b on half day tml! hee. short day den!

take care peeps! =)

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