this entry goes out to someone who is giving others a hard time...

if things don't turn out as you expected it to be...

if you are now having a hard time because of a wrong decision that you made earlier based on someone else's opinion...

if you think that things might have been better if you chose it by yourself instead of allowing others to choose for you...

who should you blame? youself or others?

frankly, you have only yourself to blame.

You were irresponsible by not choosing in the first place.
you are trying to be irresponsible again by pushing the blame to others now.

If you go on in this manner, you will never learn how to be responsible for your own actions and decisions in life.

You decide on your own life. Even God has no say in this department because He gave us free will to choose whether we want to have a personal relationship with Him or simply ignore Him totally.

no one has the power to decide for you unless you gave it up in the first place and just simply allowed others to decide for you.

You decide. whether what I say makes any sense to you.

I just hope that you will realise...

you have what it takes to be a real man if you decide to stop blaming others and do something about your life and make a change!

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I'm currently reading a book that puts together 20 over years of research on successful people from all walks of life. the goal of the author is to prove that the secret formula that was taught to him as a boy is true. The person who revealed it to him is person by the name of ..., who started off with a humble beginning as an ordinary labourer in the steel mills, applied the principles of the secret formula and yielded more than a hundred million dollars!

If you apply the principles in the book faithfully, there is nothing that you can't achieve, financially or in any goal that you may set for yourself!

sounds interesting? i'm just here to wet your appetite :)

btw, as much as i want to be wealthy, i know that it's not money that destroys a person. it's greed! I desire to be wealthy because I have a nobler goal in mind that I want to use money as a servant to accomplish for me! :)

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still busy trying to finish up the book i hope to publish for teaching physix! :)

still busy enjoying my time with wife and kids! :)

still busy thinking about which tuition centre to apply for part-time or full-time teaching. (narrowed down to 3 though: learning lab, aspen and kentridge tutors) but i may not take it up if I can find enough group tuition on my own! can anyone recommend some students to me? :)

still busy equipping myself about the land investment consultation :)

still busy being busy! :P

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I just signed a petition to support the Government's decision of retaining Section 377A that forbids sexual acts among homosexuals. Here's the comment I added when I signed the online petition:

As a school teacher and a father of 3 children, I strongly support the Government's decision of retaining S377A to provide the next generation with the right perspective about marriage, sexual intimacy and a healthy family structure that would bring up a new generation that would give birth to future generations in our country that is already facing an aging population problem!

If you are also not for the idea of allowing such unnatural acts to happen in Singapore, please join me in signing the petition as well! Click on the link below to go to the site.

Keep S377A!

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Could we with ink the ocean fill
And were the sky of parchment made,
If every stalk on earth's a quill
and every man a scribe by trade.
To write the love of God above,
would drain the ocean dry
None could the scroll contain the whole
Though stretched from sky to sky.

For I am persuaded that
neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers,
nor things present, nor things to come,
nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature,
shall be able to separate us from the love of God
which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 8:38-29

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although i only taught them for a couple of months, they have been an enjoyable bunch who is thoughtful enough to hold a farewell party for me... thank you 201, especially to min jie, shinyi and leonara!


they bought this cake because of the "dear daniel"!


I have the honour to cut the cake :)

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