Before I start to rant I wanna say:
My company is gonna introduce dental benefits. I’m not going anywhere till at least I went to the dentist on the company tab. LOL... either ways nothing happens till i get my bonus.

I've finally gotten clear on what direction I'm heading. Thank you all for your patience in bearing w my griping. Thanks Fad and Joan and Lindy and jaye for your advice/s.

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One of the dealers in my company was waxing, what I would term as crap, abt how Men will stray, and when they do, it’s the Wife's fault. the Wife, according to him, should always be vigilant, never let the guy out of her sight more than 80% of the time(outside office time), look good at all times, take care of her kids but the hubby should take priority, work, achieve and still come home to take care of the house.

What he is requesting is basically more than a super woman. He thinks it’s easy.

I felt like slapping him.

lets face it, if a guy strays its not becoz the wife doesn't look good, is not hanging ard him like a puppy dog and is taking care of HIS kids more than he is.

A guy strays because of the thrill. Period.
Maybe he doesn't love his wife anymore, maybe he feels sidelined by the kids. So? Are these justifying reasons? He seeks something to jazz up his life. U think a 24/7 nice hubby won't stray? That’s ridiculous. If given a chance, how many men have this integrity not to? Let's say the guy got married at 30, lives till 70, of which, up till 55 he is still sexually active. That’s 25 yrs to one woman, with newer, younger, prettier versions popping up every month at least. While the wife...... just read this

My answer is they will stray; it’s only a matter of how obvious and for how long or how involved.

Best solution: Women should look out for themselves. Men are only companions, not your life saver.

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One of my frens went to DBL O couple of weeks ago. And got MOLESTED. Besides touching her crotch, the guy felt up her behind as she was walking past. U guys... Don't immediately assume my fren was dressed provocatively. She was wearing an off shoulder kind of baggy dress, that went almost to the knees. Off shoulders very provocative meh~!!! Never see girls wear spegs issit?

The guy was a regular in the army. Meaning he would get court martial led if he gets charged. Meaning he gets to squat Prison den tio Detention Barracks.

KNS! !#^#$&%##@&((&%$^&&$##^*

This dumbass of a regular, ( I wonder if SAF should implement more stringent testing of IQ on pple, remember the guy who took off w a rifle and bullets from Camp only to go traipsing at a mall? ) REFUSED and REFUSED and REFUSED to admit that he was the prep raptor. Maybe he thought he could get away with it.

He refused when my friend immediately confronted him. My friend was asking merely for an apology, and told him she would not report this if he apologized.

He refused when bouncers came along and booted him out of the club w his gang of friends (other SAF regulars?). Moreover, they had the cheek to get aggressive and almost came to blows when my friend and her gang went after him.

He refused when police showed up and asks them to resolve it themselves.

He still refused when my friend told the police "Give me 5 more minutes" when the police was gonna step in.

All the while my friend repeated told him, I am only asking you to make an apology, I do not want to blow up the matter.

He still refused.

Now he is on bail, facing 3 molest charges.
2 other girls came up to the police and made reports against the guy for molest.
Imagine a person spreading butter. Now imagine a guy using both hands making the same action on these girls' breasts.

RIDICULOUS OR NOT??? And the girls didn't fight back! And were trying to siam the guy desperately on the dance floor. I CAANOT for the life of me understand why they were so meek! Do such girls still exist in Singapore??

anyways the guy is now pending court summon. and he still REFUSES to admit it.
btw he was damn sober throughout

BLOODY ARSEXXXX

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This was on the news yesterday. THUS ANOTHER REASON TO SHOP!
For those Chinese challenged the article means this:

Researchers from NUS have concluded that shopping can delay the onslaught of Alzheimer¡¯s disease. For persons aged 55 years and above, it was found that shopping was more effective than Mah-jong and regular exercise.

NUS researchers, taking a sample size of 1635 people aged between 55-92 years old, took 2 years of research to come to the conclusion that shopping, preparing meals, reading and listening to music can reduce possibility of Alzheimer¡¯s by as much as 40%. Social activity in Clubs and even mah-jong achieves only 30%. Exercises rakes in a mere 20%.

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So guys~! u better watch out! Shopping with your gf is for YOUR benefit!

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You are very burned out. You need a huge break from your responsibilities, starting as soon as possible. And you need this time to reevaluate what you really want out of your life. Because you're working hard and going no where... and that would burn anyone out!

Everyone tells me the logical thing to do is to stick at my job, its paying well, i've gotten used to the work, i have a nice boss, i dun have to OT much nowadays. But what if the job snuffs out drive and ambition? What then? Cmpromise my drive for a decent paying job? Quit thinking of better things i can achieve cause my job should be good enuff for me? So even if i devote 5yrs into this job, it shouldn't be an issue? half the ofice population built their careers here, for 10yrs and above. Does that mean i should too?

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i think they are pretty clever. lol

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